So, I broke up with my girlfriend last night... It was one of those mutual brake ups; where we don't hate each other we just realized the thrill was gone...It's been stagnate for over a month now.
Of course she still wants to be friends, and keep me in her life, but I on the other hand hate keeping close contact with x-girlfriends. After a few months of being apart when the sting is over I can talk with them on occasion, but I never let it become a serious friendshipI cant escape the feeling that I failed on some level with that person and being around them is a reminder of that failure. I hate failing!
Of course she still wants to be friends, and keep me in her life, but I on the other hand hate keeping close contact with x-girlfriends. After a few months of being apart when the sting is over I can talk with them on occasion, but I never let it become a serious friendshipI cant escape the feeling that I failed on some level with that person and being around them is a reminder of that failure. I hate failing!
if this makes you feel any better, my girlfriend and I broke up. it was mostly my fault. what sucks the most is that I want her back and she wants to stay friends with me, just for now i hope.