So, here's another long, ranty one for you.
I'm really starting to think that my husband doesn't care about anything or anyone but himself. Yes, I totally get that his job sucks, but you know what? I used to work there too, and I had it a hell of a lot worse off than he did, and yet he STILL complains about it day and night, never just coming to terms with it. He really does expect me, and has always expected me, to do everything around the house. When I wasn't working at all, that made sense to me and I did my best (I'm not a nurturer or cleaner by nature), but even when I was working as much or more than he was, if something needed done, and if I asked him to do it, it was either "Awww, but I have to work tonight" or "Awwww, but today is my day off" SHUT THE FUCK UP AND JUST DO WHAT I'VE ASKED YOU TO DO!!!!
And now, I'm working fairly hard whenever he's working, but because I didn't do the laundry last night (which I can't do, our dryer makes an insane beep when it's done and you can't turn it off, I've tried) and because I didn't throw away a box from yesterday, I get bitched at. Nevermind the fact that I have a broken toe, which does still really fucking hurt whenever I walk, and did he take the trash to the curb? The trash that was fucking frozen to the ground? No, I did. Me, who can't wear proper shoes because it pushes on that toe, went outside in flip flops, walked over the black ice, nearly fell down everytime, and dragged those fucking insanely heavy trash cans to the curb.
And in everything that I do for him, I do it when he needs it to be done, and I take care of fucking everything for him. Does he stay up until 9 to go to the bank and get money for himself? Pfft, no. Does he pay ANY bills? No. Does he call the doctor himself to tell him the sleeping meds didn't work? No. He doesn't do anything like that. He doesn't even do it for me. He hides behind all of his quirks, but I know it's just because he'd rather be sitting at the damn computer playing WoW. Don't get me wrong, I sit here all the time, and I do play WoW, but I make sure other things get done too.
I am so incredibly sick of him talking down to me. I'm sick of him leaving me with all the responsibilities as I also try to earn what I used to make. I'm sick of his disapproval of my job after he already said it was ok. Hell, today? Today I'm just sick of him.
Call me!
I'm really starting to think that my husband doesn't care about anything or anyone but himself. Yes, I totally get that his job sucks, but you know what? I used to work there too, and I had it a hell of a lot worse off than he did, and yet he STILL complains about it day and night, never just coming to terms with it. He really does expect me, and has always expected me, to do everything around the house. When I wasn't working at all, that made sense to me and I did my best (I'm not a nurturer or cleaner by nature), but even when I was working as much or more than he was, if something needed done, and if I asked him to do it, it was either "Awww, but I have to work tonight" or "Awwww, but today is my day off" SHUT THE FUCK UP AND JUST DO WHAT I'VE ASKED YOU TO DO!!!!
And now, I'm working fairly hard whenever he's working, but because I didn't do the laundry last night (which I can't do, our dryer makes an insane beep when it's done and you can't turn it off, I've tried) and because I didn't throw away a box from yesterday, I get bitched at. Nevermind the fact that I have a broken toe, which does still really fucking hurt whenever I walk, and did he take the trash to the curb? The trash that was fucking frozen to the ground? No, I did. Me, who can't wear proper shoes because it pushes on that toe, went outside in flip flops, walked over the black ice, nearly fell down everytime, and dragged those fucking insanely heavy trash cans to the curb.
And in everything that I do for him, I do it when he needs it to be done, and I take care of fucking everything for him. Does he stay up until 9 to go to the bank and get money for himself? Pfft, no. Does he pay ANY bills? No. Does he call the doctor himself to tell him the sleeping meds didn't work? No. He doesn't do anything like that. He doesn't even do it for me. He hides behind all of his quirks, but I know it's just because he'd rather be sitting at the damn computer playing WoW. Don't get me wrong, I sit here all the time, and I do play WoW, but I make sure other things get done too.
I am so incredibly sick of him talking down to me. I'm sick of him leaving me with all the responsibilities as I also try to earn what I used to make. I'm sick of his disapproval of my job after he already said it was ok. Hell, today? Today I'm just sick of him.
Call me!
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ya gonna come to havana on march 13th?
Please try not to fall on the ice and hurt yourself. I love you.