Sorry I haven't been a great SG friend lately but I haven't had enough time to sleep let alone get on here. I checked my email today for the first time in about 4 days and I had 37 new emails... some of which were time sensitive. Whoops. I did however, find enough time to let Jamielee know that she is amazing. Awesome people need to be told they are awsome or they don't feel awesome and thus making them a little less awesome. ***New Guiness World Record for using "awesome" the most in one sentence***
I had an epiphany over the weekend. Why do I chase sex? The hand full of times I have had it, it was... meh. So why do I hold such a high value for it? I will not die if I don't get it. I will not gain anything by getting it. So why? What is it that I am searching for? Sex should be a byproduct of something bigger. Yes, I speak of the "L" word. Now, the problem. How do I approach this? Most women are jaded to the idea of a guy "hitting" on them for sex only which is probably why they take one look at me and say "no thanks". I'm a smart guy, I can figure this out. How do I pull this off? Any suggestions?
I had an epiphany over the weekend. Why do I chase sex? The hand full of times I have had it, it was... meh. So why do I hold such a high value for it? I will not die if I don't get it. I will not gain anything by getting it. So why? What is it that I am searching for? Sex should be a byproduct of something bigger. Yes, I speak of the "L" word. Now, the problem. How do I approach this? Most women are jaded to the idea of a guy "hitting" on them for sex only which is probably why they take one look at me and say "no thanks". I'm a smart guy, I can figure this out. How do I pull this off? Any suggestions?
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There;s no pulling this off. Just being genuine is all one can try for, and all others can ask for. It may not garner the results you are looking for, but if you never put yourself out there, you may never find what you want. (And don't act like the person I have written about in my November 13th journal.)
Speaking of this advice, I should take it myself.