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I'm thinking it's time to move out of NJ. I hate the hot humid summer - really, really HATE them with a passion. The taxes are high here, houses cost mad huge money, traffic is everywhere and now, stupid tolls are going to go up. I know I want to move somewhere cooler, but how to decide where? And how to tell my mom and my sister that I'm leaving? And leaving my job that I like most days and find one in another part of the country... or in Canada, even, perhaps?

These are big ass decisions. Anyone have any advice? thoughts? words of wisdom?