This is an entry from my blogger that I just posted (It's where I put my more meaningful and profound entries.). I'm not really experiencing any real drama myself, but I was talking to someone who was having some major drama in his life so I felt compelled to write what I was thinking.
Enjoy.
Drama: The Story of Our Lives
I have recently decided that drama is not a one shot deal. It follows us around throughout life in one form or another. It may mature and grow, but we are never rid of it. Thus, it is a futile effort to try and refrain from having drama in your life. I have come about this conclusion after many years of research - ie. living - and can now say it without a doubt in my mind.
When we leave high school, which is apparently where all the evil drama of the universe dwells, we assume that we leave drama behind us with the rusty lockers and uncomfortable desks. Little do most of us know that those uncomfortable desks follow us into college and bring with them all the evil that is drama. True, it manifests itself differently; now, instead of worrying about who is wearing what, you are worrying about who got so drunk they participated in a gang bang with the Fijis. Is this drama? You bet your ass off it's drama.
While the majority of the drama shifts types, you will always have friendship drama. I notice it in college just as much as in high school. I have come to realize that it is an integrule part of life. You can't really tell who your friends are without drama. I mean, seriously, unless someone gets all upset because Sue slept with Bobby and comes to you about it, how are you going to know if they really do trust you? Okay, okay. That was a bad example, but you get the idea. You need drama in life - though some of us could deal with alot less.
Drama is a necessary and evil part of life. Without it, life wouldn't be worth living. We wouldn't know joy, because we wouldn't know pain; we wouldn't know love, because we wouldn't know heartbreak; we wouldn't know bliss, because we wouldn't know utter despair.
So, if you don't want drama, take lithium, lots of lithium. It will deaden you and stip you of your emotions and awareness of others' emotions. It's really the only way to avoid drama. Well, that or being a hermit...... or dead.
Make the choice: Do you want to live a normal life? Or do you not want to live a life at all just to avoid drama?
~Evy
"But what is drama? Broadly speaking, it is whatever by imitative action rouses interest or gives pleasure." ~George P. Baker
Enjoy.
Drama: The Story of Our Lives
I have recently decided that drama is not a one shot deal. It follows us around throughout life in one form or another. It may mature and grow, but we are never rid of it. Thus, it is a futile effort to try and refrain from having drama in your life. I have come about this conclusion after many years of research - ie. living - and can now say it without a doubt in my mind.
When we leave high school, which is apparently where all the evil drama of the universe dwells, we assume that we leave drama behind us with the rusty lockers and uncomfortable desks. Little do most of us know that those uncomfortable desks follow us into college and bring with them all the evil that is drama. True, it manifests itself differently; now, instead of worrying about who is wearing what, you are worrying about who got so drunk they participated in a gang bang with the Fijis. Is this drama? You bet your ass off it's drama.
While the majority of the drama shifts types, you will always have friendship drama. I notice it in college just as much as in high school. I have come to realize that it is an integrule part of life. You can't really tell who your friends are without drama. I mean, seriously, unless someone gets all upset because Sue slept with Bobby and comes to you about it, how are you going to know if they really do trust you? Okay, okay. That was a bad example, but you get the idea. You need drama in life - though some of us could deal with alot less.
Drama is a necessary and evil part of life. Without it, life wouldn't be worth living. We wouldn't know joy, because we wouldn't know pain; we wouldn't know love, because we wouldn't know heartbreak; we wouldn't know bliss, because we wouldn't know utter despair.
So, if you don't want drama, take lithium, lots of lithium. It will deaden you and stip you of your emotions and awareness of others' emotions. It's really the only way to avoid drama. Well, that or being a hermit...... or dead.
Make the choice: Do you want to live a normal life? Or do you not want to live a life at all just to avoid drama?
~Evy
"But what is drama? Broadly speaking, it is whatever by imitative action rouses interest or gives pleasure." ~George P. Baker