I love being and feeling feminine. I love heels and dresses and being dressed up. Why is it that just because I speak plainly and to the point I have to be a bitch? Im a very likeable person. Sure, I'm just a bit strange and sometimes. ... all the time.... most times... sarcastic, I'm not doing it to hurt feelings! But seriously, don't start or pick on something about me that you don't like and try to egg others on, I'll take you down. I don't ever get to a point I will verbally shut you down in front of others but if you ever pull a stunt like that again, it will be even worse; that's me being nice.
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trills:
It's not really de rigueur to speak plainly sometimes, people like to implicate motive. As long as you can honestly mind yourself then reputation be damned :)
espy:
@almost_missed @trills @horror_head it was a young female friend and she just got into a relationship... now she thinks that I need help and tries to give me relationship advice.... note that this advice is coming from someone who is 21 and this is her second ever relationship...she kept talking about how she couldn't understand my speech and English and that I have an accent and how can anyone understand me... yet shes the only one with that problem; everyone understands me just fine. And on top of that she acts like a mom to me... so push came to shove where she just kept being an asshole and telling me that I'm obviously living my life wrong without her.... and then she also questioned my U.S. citizenship..... that was the turning point.... ended everything with I've been alive and making choices without you in my life, I have a good head on my shoulders; sorry you have mom issues, but if i want your advice, ill ask for it; trust me, i will. And by the way, my speech and english is fine, i was born in america. if you're going to talk about accents, wouldn't that have been you? Since you're made in China (She was adopted from china when she was 3.).. that was a low blow but thats what happens if you can't roll with the punches because she dodnt say anything afterwards.... then I took her aside and apologized and explained to her why I said everything I said. I don't need a mom, I need a friend. Just take me as I am. everything is cool now but now she knows not to... aggravate me. Im pretty horrible.