erroneous

What I have a hard time understanding are the girls that I see have left or are concidering leaving SG. Can you not make a decision in our life that you can stick with? I can undersstand life changes and moving on to new things, friends, careers, etc., but to make an excuse like, " I was on drugs," what is that? I have done things while on drugs that I regretted the morning after. Regret is nothing to be ashamed of, and addmitting to your mistakes is something that a responsible person should do. But to turn your back on something you did, took time and effort to accomplish and more often than not, did more than once and lay the blame on something like drugs is weak.
If you feel you made a mistake, admit to it but do not lay the blame where it does not belong is unconscionable. I mean, who was it that made the decision to take the drugs in the first place?
Just food for thought.