The day has been productive and eventful. At least according to my mere existence. *sigh* I spent the day paying bills, which sucks in general. However, to make matters worse, I found out that my parental units I not been sending the money to the utilities companies. Each utility company had not received a payment since May of the is year. I was aware that they were behind and knew each was around $400-600, which was ridiculous and appalling to me, since I handle everything financially in the household. 
So the parental units were caught in something they could not get out of. I had these companies on the phone telling me this information and there was no denying the payments had not been made. The story given to me by my parents was that a water leak, which we did have, caused all the utilities to skyrocket. The referred to it as some kind of domino effect like thing. *laughs* I was stupid for believing it and continuing to give them money each month. Now however, I know the truth. The bills are paid up to date. Since they are in my name, the delinquencies over the past have affected my credit score somewhat but I contacted the credit bureau and they assured my that with time and making future payments when due, then my score will improve. Not to mention that the fact that I have paid off several negative things that were on my credit report. I also switched banks including the option to where my disability is directly deposited. I no longer carry cash and everything is password protected. My parental units have no financial access this way. It is just up to me to not hand them cash. This will be hard since I have been supporting them since I have been 16. I am working so hard to make a better life for Kenny aka Pezmaster and I, hence all the financial improvements and purchasing the vehicle and such. I just have to put up with the parental units I a little longer. That is until we can get our own home. Once the credit changes report within the next few weeks, we should be able to apply for a mortgage for a new home. This will allow me to be leave them behind and be independent and with the one who love me and wants to take of me, instead of the the reverse. I am used to that as it is apparent over the course of my past. So I hope things continue to improve. All I can do is hanging by each moment of freedom, each hug, each "I love you." Right now, it is more than enough to make me smile. 
So the parental units were caught in something they could not get out of. I had these companies on the phone telling me this information and there was no denying the payments had not been made. The story given to me by my parents was that a water leak, which we did have, caused all the utilities to skyrocket. The referred to it as some kind of domino effect like thing. *laughs* I was stupid for believing it and continuing to give them money each month. Now however, I know the truth. The bills are paid up to date. Since they are in my name, the delinquencies over the past have affected my credit score somewhat but I contacted the credit bureau and they assured my that with time and making future payments when due, then my score will improve. Not to mention that the fact that I have paid off several negative things that were on my credit report. I also switched banks including the option to where my disability is directly deposited. I no longer carry cash and everything is password protected. My parental units have no financial access this way. It is just up to me to not hand them cash. This will be hard since I have been supporting them since I have been 16. I am working so hard to make a better life for Kenny aka Pezmaster and I, hence all the financial improvements and purchasing the vehicle and such. I just have to put up with the parental units I a little longer. That is until we can get our own home. Once the credit changes report within the next few weeks, we should be able to apply for a mortgage for a new home. This will allow me to be leave them behind and be independent and with the one who love me and wants to take of me, instead of the the reverse. I am used to that as it is apparent over the course of my past. So I hope things continue to improve. All I can do is hanging by each moment of freedom, each hug, each "I love you." Right now, it is more than enough to make me smile. VIEW 5 of 5 COMMENTS
by the way, i edited my blog to add some cuteness if u want to check again