Today was my 'day off'. I slept in...woke up and played some online games, chatted with some friends. Got bored so headed down to work at 3. I was supposed to go in at 5 and work on a friend, but figured I'd go in early anyways. The friend I started working on today has an arm of SHIT he needs redone/finished. Luckily, it's all just lines. We're gonna pound a few sessions of white over all of it and then do something big and colorful there instead. I'm more jazzed about that than just cleaning up and finishing a shitty tattoo. While I was at work I lined up a couple appointments for later in the week as well. It's starting to get busy at the shop with the summer getting here. It's about time. 
On an up note, I talked to my wife today. She was pleasant on the phone and we joked a little. We're gonna be filing bankruptcy and I had to let her know that next week we need to go in and see the lawyers and start everything. Each time we talk, she seems a little more at ease...which is good,. It's hard to be kind and civil to someone that sounds like they don't want to waste their time even talking to you. Heh.
Her birthday is in 2 weeks. Right before she left me, she had ordered a couple DVD's...When things went down and she had to move out earlier than planned (I had no idea she was moving out, I could just tell something was up) she cancelled the order since she didn't have the means to be buying dvd's...or anything for pure entertainment purposes for that matter. I ordered the movies for her with an amazon gift card that I had gotten before and I'm going to give them to her for her birthday. When she left, I told her to take anything in the house she wanted, that it was all just stuff and that I could replace everything in the house and that none of it was important to me. She took a fair amount. She left me enough to live and not have to start over from scratch. She left me all 7 seasons of Buffy. Hehe...That was the one things I hoped she wouldn't take. So I think it's fair I get her some DVD's she really wanted for at least leaving me those. I'm also going to be sending her roses at work for her birthday. No, I am not trying to win her back by buying her things...but when Valentines day was here we were really strapped for money and I couldn't afford anything and we said we wouldn't get anything. She came home and was sad that all the other women in her work got flowers at work and she didn't. She understood, but at the time, she said she expected to at least get flowers for her birthday. So I'm going to hold up to my end of that, even though we aren't together.. I just feel like I need to do some good things to keep myself heading forward in a positive direction. There are way too many people who are so eager to fuck over someone they feel has wronged them. I want the best for her even if it' means not being with me. If it's truly over, we're both leaving with way more than we started with in our lives. For all the shitty things 2 people can do to each other, we've also done some wonderful things. I can at least recognize that.
On an up note, I talked to my wife today. She was pleasant on the phone and we joked a little. We're gonna be filing bankruptcy and I had to let her know that next week we need to go in and see the lawyers and start everything. Each time we talk, she seems a little more at ease...which is good,. It's hard to be kind and civil to someone that sounds like they don't want to waste their time even talking to you. Heh.
Her birthday is in 2 weeks. Right before she left me, she had ordered a couple DVD's...When things went down and she had to move out earlier than planned (I had no idea she was moving out, I could just tell something was up) she cancelled the order since she didn't have the means to be buying dvd's...or anything for pure entertainment purposes for that matter. I ordered the movies for her with an amazon gift card that I had gotten before and I'm going to give them to her for her birthday. When she left, I told her to take anything in the house she wanted, that it was all just stuff and that I could replace everything in the house and that none of it was important to me. She took a fair amount. She left me enough to live and not have to start over from scratch. She left me all 7 seasons of Buffy. Hehe...That was the one things I hoped she wouldn't take. So I think it's fair I get her some DVD's she really wanted for at least leaving me those. I'm also going to be sending her roses at work for her birthday. No, I am not trying to win her back by buying her things...but when Valentines day was here we were really strapped for money and I couldn't afford anything and we said we wouldn't get anything. She came home and was sad that all the other women in her work got flowers at work and she didn't. She understood, but at the time, she said she expected to at least get flowers for her birthday. So I'm going to hold up to my end of that, even though we aren't together.. I just feel like I need to do some good things to keep myself heading forward in a positive direction. There are way too many people who are so eager to fuck over someone they feel has wronged them. I want the best for her even if it' means not being with me. If it's truly over, we're both leaving with way more than we started with in our lives. For all the shitty things 2 people can do to each other, we've also done some wonderful things. I can at least recognize that.
Do you want her back? If so, have you shown her that? You sound really laid back about it. Maybe she wants you to fight for it..
*end spanish inquisition*
Whew, How's the weather down there?