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Wednesday Jan 21, 2004

Jan 21, 2004
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Ok, so I out up the wrong French Quote and scared a few folks..... woops.

So i totally lost it earlier this week. My sigoth (well, for the most part he is anyway) and i work in the same office. he was just promoted ahead of me when I am better educated, more deserving, and have been here longer. I also perform better and have consistantly gotten better reviews.
I was livid. I felt betrayed by my boss and I felt betrayed by him.
I have been working 2 jobs to make ends meet and he knew I wanted to advance there. But it was offered only to him, and what could he do? Turn down the money we need? Of course not. I can calmly see that now. (and it isnt that big a promotion or raise.... but anyway)

So I confronted my boss after 4 days of raging lunacy and she apologised stating that she was under a lot of pressure to put someon in this position that was unexpectedly vacated and that I was doing better in our current department than he was, and she took some off hand remark I made as a sign of disinterest in that line of work. She even offered to open the post up again for fair interviewing. I appreciated this, and felt better and more in the know. I can understand her pressure as I know how things have been around here. And I know her, she wouldnt overlook or harm anyone intentionally. I opted not to compete because I felt it would be unfair to ask her to retract the job offer, and we both knew that the other 2 folk running that dept were geek types that had made up their minds and werent likely to change them when forced to make things messy by having open interviewing.

I am copign now, but this loss of temper has motivated me to rehire my therapist. Yay for me... so this Sat at 8 I go to get my head shrunk by my favorite man.... Mr. Bill!
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peart:
That stinks, I got a college degree and just plan on going from mcjob to mcjob, though that does suck
Jan 21, 2004
its_matt:
surely if it was an on the spot decision, then the best candidate would spring to mind? i was thinking a slight hint of sexism in the workplace, may have occurred but maybe that will take you away from your happy place... whatever

just remember, he may show his lack of talent at the higher level, and then they could come to you, and then NAME YOUR PRICE!!!!! biggrin
Jan 22, 2004

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