hey land of SG.
Does anyone here have a love hate relationship with a sister or a brother?
I came to the end of mine last weekend. After putting up with my sister Alisa for 24 years and her bullying, I cracked and have told her I've had enough and to not call me till she stops being a complete shit, takes responsibility for her actions and stops blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong.
Anyway I went up to see her after she spent ages crying to me and telling me shes lonely ( see blog on the 28th of Sept). So I got the coach to my home town which took 7 hours because I was worried about her and when I got there she was fine and had found a new boy to take her mind of the EX. However she wasn't a very nice person to me all weekend and now keeps harassing me in a very immature way. Shocking to think shes related to me right now! Everytime I went to talk to her I was told to shut up and when it came to Sunday she had a massive go at me. She called me an immature, ungrateful, self centred little brat and that I need to sort my life out and grow up. Little confused why?!
First off I traveled 300 miles to see her because I was worried about her.
I walked her dog and brought it dog food because she didn't have any.
A brought us stuff to make Mexican and helped her make it.
I helped wash the dishes.
Made her breakfast and brews while there.
And tried to help her tidy up but didn't know where stuff went so just straighten the throw over on the sofa.
She also asked me to lie to her new boy about my age because she had told him she is 23 not 26.
She turned into the mega bitch and was really nasty. My boyfriend picked me up and I was really hurt and upset with all the things she said. Decided just to let it go and get on with my life once I got home and to not let her get to me. Two days after I've been home she tries ringing me and I don't answer. Then I get a text asking if i have her spear keys. Being busy I text her back and said I'd post them to our dads as his address, I remember. I then get a nasty text about me not even being bothered to get her address and that I'm a self centered bitch for not getting her address. To be honest I couldn't see what the big deal was as she'd still get them. Then it turns into a nasty phone call. By this point I've had enough and tell her to leave me alone and tell her all the things I did for her while staying at her house. She shuts up and hangs up the phone.
I really don't know what it is about me that she hates so much!
Does anyone here have a love hate relationship with a sister or a brother?
I came to the end of mine last weekend. After putting up with my sister Alisa for 24 years and her bullying, I cracked and have told her I've had enough and to not call me till she stops being a complete shit, takes responsibility for her actions and stops blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong.
Anyway I went up to see her after she spent ages crying to me and telling me shes lonely ( see blog on the 28th of Sept). So I got the coach to my home town which took 7 hours because I was worried about her and when I got there she was fine and had found a new boy to take her mind of the EX. However she wasn't a very nice person to me all weekend and now keeps harassing me in a very immature way. Shocking to think shes related to me right now! Everytime I went to talk to her I was told to shut up and when it came to Sunday she had a massive go at me. She called me an immature, ungrateful, self centred little brat and that I need to sort my life out and grow up. Little confused why?!
First off I traveled 300 miles to see her because I was worried about her.
I walked her dog and brought it dog food because she didn't have any.
A brought us stuff to make Mexican and helped her make it.
I helped wash the dishes.
Made her breakfast and brews while there.
And tried to help her tidy up but didn't know where stuff went so just straighten the throw over on the sofa.
She also asked me to lie to her new boy about my age because she had told him she is 23 not 26.
She turned into the mega bitch and was really nasty. My boyfriend picked me up and I was really hurt and upset with all the things she said. Decided just to let it go and get on with my life once I got home and to not let her get to me. Two days after I've been home she tries ringing me and I don't answer. Then I get a text asking if i have her spear keys. Being busy I text her back and said I'd post them to our dads as his address, I remember. I then get a nasty text about me not even being bothered to get her address and that I'm a self centered bitch for not getting her address. To be honest I couldn't see what the big deal was as she'd still get them. Then it turns into a nasty phone call. By this point I've had enough and tell her to leave me alone and tell her all the things I did for her while staying at her house. She shuts up and hangs up the phone.
I really don't know what it is about me that she hates so much!
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However, just becasue you are related to someone doesn't mean you get on with each other. As the saying goes, you can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family. Me? I'm heartless - and I'd cut my sibling out of my life if they upset me that much. Easier said than done I guess.