elegantorchid

So I'm going through this wonderful divorce process. Watching my ex date her significant other (just one of the men she cheated on me with) and I'm structuring my new life around writing and photography. But I've come to the realization that I'm so beyond ready for someone good to come into my life. I've been working on myself a lot over the past five...
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Ok, life is changing and I'm sick of trying to hold on to things the way they were. It's definitely time for a change. Horrible updates: my wife has decided that our marriage is completely dead to her. She want's me out, and she has a work boyfriend that she is intending to hook up with at a work function in 30 days. It's wonderful...
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Long story short, I discovered my life has not been what I thought it was. I discovered a spicy text message between my wife and another man. When I confronted her, she lied... I flew off the rails. In the aftermath, I discovered that it has been going on for a while and she has been done with me for a long while.

I'm torn...
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I’m struggling so hardcore these days! I feel like every direction there is a different and converse tip of how to by hip. To hashtag or not, to write long form prose or quotes, to be real or curate for positivity...

And it’s all good and fun when it’s just for likes or hobby. But when it’s literally the difference between booking a good paying...
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I went into the weekend planning on taking the next two weeks off. I made it two days. Really, a day and a half. I wanted to take a break and recharge my batteries, but the truth is... THIS does charge my batteries! There is nothing quite like sharing this side of myself and of the gorgeous women who create these images with me.

So......
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Ok, I have a crazy idea. I don't know if it's been done or if I'm trying to make something that shouldn't be (I do that a lot). I started an OnlyFans account and finally got it all hooked up. And while I'd love to make a living from it... what I really want to do is collaborate with other OnlyFans creators.

I'm a photographer......
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I've been doing a lot of soul searching lately. Christmas has brought it on... I guess it's all of the Ghosts of Christmas, you know the ones: debt, desire, and dream.

For me, my wife (when I was originally dating her) had expressed how she had considered posing around 2008. I didn't bat my eyes but it started a curiosity for me. It wasn't until...
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One of the best parts of my job is working with models who are just absolutely incredible! One of these is a young woman I've been working with quite a bit lately. Her presence and her strength is just incredible to watch. I love watching her unfold through my lens.

Exactly why I do what I do!