Login
Forgot Password?

OR

Login with Google Login with Twitter Login with Facebook
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • SuicideGirls
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
Vital Stats

elegantorchid

Clearwater, FL

Member Since 2017

Followers 123 Following 290

  • Everything
  • Photos
  • Video
  • SG
  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • From Others

I need FEMALE help! (Or I guess other photographers if you've got a good insight)

Oct 18, 2018
8
  • Facebook
  • Tweet
  • Email

Ok. So. I have TWO boudoir/intimate portraiture endeavors going on and have had them for a few years. MattiasGraves Photography is my MAIN thing... it's my bodyscapes and classic boudoir. My clients are typically moms and newlyweds (the typical boudoir client)… and my OTHER company is ElegantOrchid; where my ideal clients are the more alternative... tattoo/piercing friendly, hair dyed... cool women. For both I want to offer the private/discreet boudoir experience with upscale locations and amazing shots but my main focus is to empower them to find strength in their sensuality and sexuality. I'm keeping it FAR apart from my previous porn endeavors and I guess I'm being a little scared people think I want to get back into that... I don't.

But I think it's SUPER important women (especially in THIS day and age) see their sexuality as something natural... healthy... and absolutely awesome! Not something to shun and feel shame about. I want my photo sessions to be an opportunity to open that closet door and let out WHATEVER steps out. To have the model experience and then be able to go home and be the CEO or Accoutnant or Doctor or Lawyer or Mom she is.

ENTER MY PROBLEM.

My websites mostly have male following and none of them interact. I don't WANT men... but that's all I'm appealing to. :( I really feel passionate about my direction and feel like it's the culmination of EVERYTHING I've done in my life. I just don't know HOW or WHERE to find clients!

Ladies, any insight from you on where and HOW would be a great help!!

In case you DON'T know me... I'm happily married, 100% professional, and don't see my photography as a way to get laid (it's my passion and my dream to create amazing art). How do I connect with the women who TRULY NEED my services???? Do they even exist???

bookcouple:
I wish I could help, but it’s so hard to find good clients... just wanted to encourage you to keep pushing!
Oct 19, 2018
elegantorchid:
Thanks so much! Hey even encouragement means a LOT at this point!!
Oct 19, 2018

More Blogs

  • 07.11.21
    1

    Guys, We Got It All Wrong!

    So here I was doing my usual rounds… FetLife, SG, PurplePort, Model…
  • 07.11.21
    2

    Shit. I’ve Been Putting This Off For Too Long!!

    I need to set aside time to ACTUALLY edit some photos for fun. Stu…
  • 07.09.21
    1

    Blog Homework 7/9: Jack of All Trades, Expert At None

    What Am I Best At? I'm going to sound incredible big headed when I…
  • 07.09.21
    1

    Has anybody had any luck with accountability partners in fitness?

    I’ve always been that heavier guy… I hear skinny friends; the guys …
  • 07.09.21
    4

    Fuck. My. Life. Father of the Year Blog…

    It happened again. My son broke his arm. A second time… now hi…
  • 07.09.21
    0

    Not me awake at 4am being productive because my kid had a melt down… 😏

  • 07.04.21
    0

    What To Do When You Can't Get Out Of Bed?

    Depression is something that has been a lifelong struggle for me. W…
  • 06.28.21
    3

    Body Positivity: A Modern Man/Photographer’s Opinion

    I was having an argument the other day with my girlfriend about th…
  • 06.28.21
    0

    I realized, today, I’ve been censoring myself. For no good reason oth…

  • 06.23.21
    0

    What’s Your Favorite Beach Set?

    I’m looking through my concepts and thinking about what I want to s…

We at SuicideGirls have been celebrating alternative pin-up girls for:

23
years
10
months
24
days
  • 5,509,826 fans
  • 41,393 fans
  • 10,327,617 followers
  • 4,600 SuicideGirls
  • 1,114,785 followers
  • 14,948,984 photos
  • 321,315 followers
  • 61,463,504 comments
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
  • Help
  • About
  • Press
  • LIVE

Legal/Tos | DMCA | Privacy Policy | 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement | Contact Us | Vendo Payment Support
©SuicideGirls 2001-2025

Press enter to search
Fast Hi-res

Click here to join & see it all...

Crop your photo