well, this is what I get for not paying attention to the SG chatter. A whole new site, that isn't too user friendly. Oh well, I do hope that it improves as the bugs get worked out. the one thing that really bugs me is the interface with friends and bookmarks, it seems to make communicating with friends not as convenient. it's nothing to quite...
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Ive realized that Im not content with my life and its direction. Ive been in this spot before and know that it will pass, and its usually moved to something pretty good. What Im concerned about, is I tend to make big changes o correct any problems. This time, I want to find more subtle means of change.
When a big change is made, everything...
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When a big change is made, everything...
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Ive realized that Im not content with my life and its direction. Ive been in this spot before and know that it will pass, and its usually moved to something pretty good. What Im concerned about, is I tend to make big changes o correct any problems. This time, I want to find more subtle means of change.
When a big change is made, everything...
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When a big change is made, everything...
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I know that everyones family is f&@# up a bit, some worse than others. Mine really isnt so bad, but it does take some hard turns sometimes. Ijust found out that my Dad is filling a lawsuit with against my mom for the second time (he dropped the first one 3 years ago). Neither of them want to get me involved, so they wont go...
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soft_shoulder:
ouch. if they dont want to get you involved it sounds like youre not forced to choose sides, which under the circumstances would be impossible.
i will attempt to not drop of the face of the earth this time.
happy belated birthday! hello to jess!
i will attempt to not drop of the face of the earth this time.
happy belated birthday! hello to jess!
sometimes life just sucks
Why do relationships end up being so freaking awkward! Almost three years, and shes still not sure what she wants. All I want from the person I love is for them to want me as well. She tells me that she often feels that the things she wants to do, seem to be in opposition to our relationship. Whether its knitting, or joining the peace...
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soft_shoulder:
if she REALLY seriously wants these other things and believe they will make her happy tell her to stop making up excuses (including you as an excuse) and just go out and do it. if it fails you'll still love her, if it succeeds you'll still love her.
she has nothing to lose.. except guilt. and if she doesnt do these things "because of you" then she'll just harbor resentment toward you for holding her back which wont be good ten years down the road when she hates her life and what she hasnt accomplished and dumps that weight on your shoulders.
and if she is difficult and refuses to go than its not really you.. she may just be afraid to take these leaps and using you as a scapegoat. in which case stick up for yourself, put her in her place.
slap her silly till she learns to be happy or content.
i want to say i have faith that it will all work out smoothly. unfortunately i cant make promises when humans are involved. ive learned i know nothing about humans.
**hugs
she has nothing to lose.. except guilt. and if she doesnt do these things "because of you" then she'll just harbor resentment toward you for holding her back which wont be good ten years down the road when she hates her life and what she hasnt accomplished and dumps that weight on your shoulders.
and if she is difficult and refuses to go than its not really you.. she may just be afraid to take these leaps and using you as a scapegoat. in which case stick up for yourself, put her in her place.
slap her silly till she learns to be happy or content.
i want to say i have faith that it will all work out smoothly. unfortunately i cant make promises when humans are involved. ive learned i know nothing about humans.
**hugs
soft_shoulder:
if she REALLY seriously wants these other things and believe they will make her happy tell her to stop making up excuses (including you as an excuse) and just go out and do it. if it fails you'll still love her, if it succeeds you'll still love her.
she has nothing to lose.. except guilt. and if she doesnt do these things "because of you" then she'll just harbor resentment toward you for holding her back which wont be good ten years down the road when she hates her life and what she hasnt accomplished and dumps that weight on your shoulders.
and if she is difficult and refuses to go than its not really you.. she may just be afraid to take these leaps and using you as a scapegoat. in which case stick up for yourself, put her in her place.
slap her silly till she learns to be happy or content.
i want to say i have faith that it will all work out smoothly. unfortunately i cant make promises when humans are involved. ive learned i know nothing about humans.
**hugs
she has nothing to lose.. except guilt. and if she doesnt do these things "because of you" then she'll just harbor resentment toward you for holding her back which wont be good ten years down the road when she hates her life and what she hasnt accomplished and dumps that weight on your shoulders.
and if she is difficult and refuses to go than its not really you.. she may just be afraid to take these leaps and using you as a scapegoat. in which case stick up for yourself, put her in her place.
slap her silly till she learns to be happy or content.
i want to say i have faith that it will all work out smoothly. unfortunately i cant make promises when humans are involved. ive learned i know nothing about humans.
**hugs
Less than a week till Im done with finals, and on a plane to Vegas (?!). Actually I cant stand the city, but theres phenomenal climbing just north of town and I got a free plane ticket and a friend has a time share I can use for free. So, Im going.
Note to self: Must find job when I get back. ASAP.
Note to self: Must find job when I get back. ASAP.
severus:
I will check it out, thanks.
How come tears and anger can feel so similar?
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severus:
Well, I do need computers for what I do. Also to get inspiration, build my webpage, make money, sell prints, get new music, keep up with friends. So, the thing is though how to handle the time that's not effective when it comes to computers. I don't have an internet personality really, it's just me. So I don't have a problem with that. Some friens of mine quit communities because they were having some kind of alter ego. I don't.
severus:
I do think we are losing some important things with computers, yes but it depends on yourself. It's tricky. Don't you think? They are really a great toy to get contacts, work, support, help, art, but... it can become too passive too. It's fucking tricky.
[Edited on Apr 28, 2006 4:41PM]
[Edited on Apr 28, 2006 4:41PM]
Its come time that I offer my troubles to cyberspace, because they bother me too much inside, and I have no one within reach to share them with.
I can finally admit a year and a half after closing my coffee house that Im burnt out. Spent. Wondering if Ill ever muster the energy to do more than get by, resigned to a comfortable mediocrity....
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I can finally admit a year and a half after closing my coffee house that Im burnt out. Spent. Wondering if Ill ever muster the energy to do more than get by, resigned to a comfortable mediocrity....
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soft_shoulder:
perhaps a change of homespace... flee
some days you just feel useless.......