So after 5 weeks of my mother being locked into a hospital ward...... we moved her into a exquisite aged care facility & ofcause she wasn’t happy with it....... my mother has been diagnosed with vascular dementia.... which we as her children have struggled with for the past 2 years as she refuses to go to appointments......last night I thought great we have gotten her out of the psych ward of the hospital she was in due to covid 19........
But no.......and now here I sit feeling bad because all she wants is to go home ( her home of 43 years) and between myself and my sisters we are conflicted as to if she goes back one last time........ part of me says no, but the other part screams yes because she deserves it & or we as her children owe her that much....... mentally I want to...... but psychology wise I don’t think I could do it and know the door closed is forever.......
torn apart either way.....