Needing some love... Just found out that the ex has turned to coke to assist (?) with the drinking. I know that I did the right thing in leaving him, and this certainly reassures it-it just hurts so much. Watching someone I love waste away and destroy their body, mind and life is so hard. I want to be able to be there for him,...
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codemonkeym:
Sorry. It really sucks. I've known people that destroyed themselves like that. 
Stay strong!
Stay strong!
jayded1:
I was in a similar situation. It is not fun, just remember you made the right choice.
JUST got in the door from an awesome night out! 4:30, got home at 2:30, just spent a very hot two hours making out with a complete hottie. Best part? When he said, "thank you for having the self control to stop us, I often fail at." Might have been facetious but I don't think so and I don't fucking care.
SWOON
SWOON
strider57:
Well, from your description of events it sounds as if our woodbe PUA needs to work on his game a bit more. To properly "dis" or "neg" a girl, the dis really should come wrapped in a compliment. For example...Wow, that's a nice bracelet..(now pause)...my Mom likes costume jewelry too, and say it with a smile so she thinks you're just picking, but she's not completely sure? The point is not to blatantly insult the girl, you just want to evoke a playful response from her while keeping her a bit off balance. Now, she might object and insist the bracelet is not costume jewelry, in which case, I'd take her by the hand while asking for a closer look. This is called "anchoring." Anchoring is nothing more than innocent touching, but you want to anchor the girl as much as possible without it becoming obvious, so she becomes comfortable with your touch. You might scoff at the things I'm telling you, but believe me this stuff really does work, most of the time. Any average guy who learns the proper technics and is confident in his skills can have as many women in his life and his bed as he wants. It's easy to create attraction, if you know how to do it, which obviously the guy you described doesn't. It sounds like he might have bought a copy of The Mystery Method and skimmed through it, but he's not doing it right!!
waldo_jeffers:
Yuletide Greetings!! 
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just posted something I did not mean to.. ooops
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strider57:
Alas, we snooze, we lose...
maineville:
Posted something well it wasn't here and i hope it wasn't somewhere you can get in trouble for
Been trying to write an essay all day... been taking Skyrim breaks... It's sort of turned into playing Skyrim all day with essay writing breaks...
Oh well, it's only due tomorrow at midnight!
Oh well, it's only due tomorrow at midnight!
tadkil:
You might have stirred up some goodness in your unconscious mind! See what sleep brings.
ron4164:
Games will get you.
Games will get you. Weirdest guy at the pub tonight...
So he sees a girl sitting alone at the bar. He buys her a shot... pretty normal...
Then his friend, who originally started sitting next to her starts talking to her so the first guy buggers off.
Then at the end of the night he comes over to make fun of her for the type of phone she has...
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So he sees a girl sitting alone at the bar. He buys her a shot... pretty normal...
Then his friend, who originally started sitting next to her starts talking to her so the first guy buggers off.
Then at the end of the night he comes over to make fun of her for the type of phone she has...
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snowmiser:
you don't have an iphone?? geeeesh......
strider57:
Silly Rabbit, he was playing her. It's a common PUA (Pick Up Artist) ploy. Be nice to her, then insult her just a little, usually playfully. It a disarming play, designed to make the girl seek your approval AND it works most of the time. Girls are used to guy fawning over them, so the guy who "playfully" (can't stress that enough) dis's her comes off as different. It might have rubbed you the wrong way, but then again you weren't the main subject of the exercise.
I had a video to share but I cannot get it to let me do so. So I give up.
I'm going to add to this now some more of my feelings:
Since June 20th I have had something to distract me every day. I drove to the coast. I worked two jobs. I filled my life with random strangers clinging to the idea that...
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I'm going to add to this now some more of my feelings:
Since June 20th I have had something to distract me every day. I drove to the coast. I worked two jobs. I filled my life with random strangers clinging to the idea that...
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i donwanna study anymore!!!!!
stoneart:
nobody likes studying...take a break and come to Vegas 
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stoneart:
You should have told me...I would gladly share with you haha 
I took all my good ones down haha
I took all my good ones down haha
hennessy:
seeing pictures of horfrost makes me shudder and brings back terrible memories of work. It is nice to look at though. I have one or two pictures in my blog.
I was having an OK day.
Then I got my paper back, 97%, great day.
Then I checked my e-mail and His mom had sent me an e-mail asking how I was and where I got something that He and I used to share that she wants to buy Him for Christmas.
A lovely reminder that I will be alone during this three week break...
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Then I got my paper back, 97%, great day.
Then I checked my e-mail and His mom had sent me an e-mail asking how I was and where I got something that He and I used to share that she wants to buy Him for Christmas.
A lovely reminder that I will be alone during this three week break...
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epiphine:
Things will get better, they always do. Hang in there, stick to your guns and move forward with all your plans, tomorrow just might be a 100% great day
What do you do if you have found the man who you want to have a family with and you want to be a part of his family?
What if you have spent two years with him?
You two have never really had a fight, minus a few small disagreements.
Except of course when one, or both, of you were drunk.
Then things could sometimes...
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What if you have spent two years with him?
You two have never really had a fight, minus a few small disagreements.
Except of course when one, or both, of you were drunk.
Then things could sometimes...
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ecrivaine:
Strider.
I was raised by alcoholics. My grandfather died at the age of 52, my parents have restraining orders against each other, my mother kicked me out when I was in high school and the alcoholic trend has followed suit to my two brothers. My first boyfriend's father was a recovered alcoholic and some of my closest friends are ex heroin and meth addicts.
I understand the beast.
I grew up fast.
I may be 23 but I think I know exactly what I want for the rest of my life. You may think I'm being a silly kid, but when I sit down and talk to a stranger the inevitably ALWAYS ask my age because I seem older than I look. They always think I'm 27-32...
I know I do not need someone to "complete" me. That was a remnant of cliche.
But I DO believe that there are a few people in the world who are your "other half" you bring out the best in them and they the best in you.
Most people right now will stop me and say I didn't bring out the best in him: but I did, for a while. He was sober for quite some time with me. And he wants change. He knows there is a problem and wants to get better.
I was raised by alcoholics. My grandfather died at the age of 52, my parents have restraining orders against each other, my mother kicked me out when I was in high school and the alcoholic trend has followed suit to my two brothers. My first boyfriend's father was a recovered alcoholic and some of my closest friends are ex heroin and meth addicts.
I understand the beast.
I grew up fast.
I may be 23 but I think I know exactly what I want for the rest of my life. You may think I'm being a silly kid, but when I sit down and talk to a stranger the inevitably ALWAYS ask my age because I seem older than I look. They always think I'm 27-32...
I know I do not need someone to "complete" me. That was a remnant of cliche.
But I DO believe that there are a few people in the world who are your "other half" you bring out the best in them and they the best in you.
Most people right now will stop me and say I didn't bring out the best in him: but I did, for a while. He was sober for quite some time with me. And he wants change. He knows there is a problem and wants to get better.
tc_nikon:
I think that you need to spend time trying to work on yourself first. Once you are in a better position then if and only if the other person wants help then you can help. I know you may understand the beast so that means that you already know that if a person is not ready to end their destructive ways then there is no way that you can help them or make them change. You may believe that this person is your better half and that this person may complete you.
I hope things work out for you...
I hope things work out for you...
I'm having a really crappy day.
I don't know if it's all in my head, but I feel like people don't like me.
Some of the people in my life I think just associate with me out of kindness, not desire.
And people I don't know never want to talk to me.
This whole thing is making me feel really lonely and anti-social. The thing...
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I don't know if it's all in my head, but I feel like people don't like me.
Some of the people in my life I think just associate with me out of kindness, not desire.
And people I don't know never want to talk to me.
This whole thing is making me feel really lonely and anti-social. The thing...
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andresr:
Envy them, sure! Bet you are amazing, so relax, all on your time!
snowmiser:
there you go. three in a span of an hour. you are on a roll......