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So would anyone else be upset if your good friend who was visiting from NY said this to you:

Friend: ok well im kinda tired, so I am just going to chill here for a bit. You're welcome to come over and chill for a while but I am going to eat at 6
Me: i guess i could do that
Friend: or we can hang later in the week
Me: are we actually going to be able to? :-P
Friend: yuh i think so
Friend: if you come over you have to stop at the mall, get me a pretzel and sandi some yogurt covered pretzels from the candy shoppe
Me: so i'd basically be going to the mall to come all the way back over here? lol
Friend: yup
Me: and would we still get to hang out on friday? lol
Friend: i dont know
Friend: tomorrow i am busy all day
Friend: friday mornig i am busy and then again fri night
Friend: sat i am busy and then sunn in themoring i am busy and then off back home
Me: :-(
Friend: hey im sorry.
Friend: this is supposed to be relaxing for me and I am not jumping allover the place to hangout with people

I told her "brb" and I don't even know how to respond to that right now. I literally want to cry and am not far from it. Yesterday she was gonna text me if her and her other friend wound up at the mall. Like to kill 2 birds with 1 stone and get me out of the way. She goes and spends hours upon hours with people but I can't get like an hour of her time unless I go get her something first. It makes me feel like I mean next to nothing to her. And if I tell her now that it upset me or made me mad then she'll say "well that's the way you took it." WHO THE FUCK WOULDN'T TAKE IT THAT WAY?

*Edit 4:44pm*

So we're having our fight right now.

Me: ok
Friend: what didyou do?
Me: honestly? i was a little bit speechless by your last statement
Friend: ?
Me: don't worry about it
Friend: um no
Friend: i didn't say anything that should have upset you in any way
Friend: i told you ypou could come over. and that i didnt know what was happening the rest of the week
Friend: but i didnt say it was out of the wuestion. i just don't want to have to be streessed about it. This ismy vacation and I want to chill ands not worry about who sees me and shit
Friend: hello?
Me: well it made me feel like you didn't care
Friend: how could it make you feel like that?
Me: the fact that you said you didn't want to jump around all over to see people but that you're already doing that
Friend: i know
Friend: and i dont want to
Friend: how is that offensive to you?
Friend: i told you you could come over
Friend: and like i said, i dont know what is heppening the rest of the week so i cant say for sure
Me: you told me to go get you something before i did
Friend: well iu was halfway kidding
Me: it just made me feel like i wasn't important enough, ok?
Friend: ok well you know thats not true
Friend: hello?
Friend: WTF
Me: that's just how it made me feel
Me: you know how i am
Friend: well jesus
Friend: i have to play this game with you louis? this si dumb. you know i didn't mean itlike that
Me: i wanted to drop it
Friend: well clearly your pissed, and will be pisse forever (cause i know you)a nd i don't want to have all this pressure
Me: that's why i just want to drop it, i'll get over it
Friend: there is nothing to get over
Friend: it is your choice if you want to hang out with me or not
Friend: but i am sivck of making a ton of effort FOR ANYONE
Friend: jaclyn hasnt even called me
Friend: nor anastasia
Me: i don't know how this turned into this now
Friend: wellwhatever
Me: so now you're pissed at me
Friend: no
Friend: its just dumb thats al;l
Friend: you always make a big deal over nothing
Friend: and it is making me feel guilty

Am I really out of line? I'll update again if anything else happens