I met a girl at that Halloween party I mentioned in the last blog. Not that anyone reads this. She accidentally kicked me in the left testicle when they picked her up to do a keg stand. She also thought the brownies I made were amazing and told me several times throughout the night. We got to talking later and it turned out that she was enrolled at the college I graduated from. I also wound up giving her a back rub that she thought was amazing.
2 days later I was hanging out with a friend (it was his party and she was his friend) and told him that I was surprised he didn't hear people telling him that I was trying to hook up with her. He said "why didn't you?" and I said "well I didn't know if there was anything between you two" and he said "no, we're just friends. you should totally date her."
And that conversation happened again another time or two. Then twice on November 12th, the 2nd time that night he took me aside and gave me this long spiel about how her last bf was an asshole and he knew I'd treat her right and how much we had in common. I haven't talked to him since the 14th because of a miscommunication that happened and he went to Arkansas a few days later.
So fast forward to the 19th. I'm sitting at home and the girl messages me on Myspace asking if I wanted to go get a bite to eat. I had already eaten and would've gone but my grandfather was in the hospital and I was the only one home, so I didn't want to leave in case something happened. She felt bad that I couldn't go and I asked for a raincheck. When I was finally able to go out I told her where I was going and left her my number in a message. She got home and called me immediately and ran up to the bar even though it was closing in 20 minutes. A friend found that "interesting." She was going out of town for a few days but we decided to hang out again when she got back.
That was the 26th. Again with the same group of people. Heard several times during the night that we looked "right" together and that we "worked." Someone even joked before I walked her out to her car that I had "better kiss her tonight." We said goodbye. I go back inside and there's a text from a friend of mine that says "hey."
I go over to him and ask him what's up and he goes "You know that she's dating Adam (the guy who told me to date her) right?" I wound up sitting outside for the next 20 minuntes by myself until that friend's gf came out to sit with me. I finally cried the entire way home because I felt like my life was one big joke.
Depending on which version of the story is true, he either started dating her 2 days after he last told me I should date her or was already dating her when he told me to date her the last time. So either way he fucked me. I'm honestly not sure which version is worse. I would get to the bottom of this but it will be ugly. I am NOT happy at all. I want to confront him but any answer is probably going to lead to me choking him.
So needless to say I'm very hurt, confused, and not trusting of anyone right now.
2 days later I was hanging out with a friend (it was his party and she was his friend) and told him that I was surprised he didn't hear people telling him that I was trying to hook up with her. He said "why didn't you?" and I said "well I didn't know if there was anything between you two" and he said "no, we're just friends. you should totally date her."
And that conversation happened again another time or two. Then twice on November 12th, the 2nd time that night he took me aside and gave me this long spiel about how her last bf was an asshole and he knew I'd treat her right and how much we had in common. I haven't talked to him since the 14th because of a miscommunication that happened and he went to Arkansas a few days later.
So fast forward to the 19th. I'm sitting at home and the girl messages me on Myspace asking if I wanted to go get a bite to eat. I had already eaten and would've gone but my grandfather was in the hospital and I was the only one home, so I didn't want to leave in case something happened. She felt bad that I couldn't go and I asked for a raincheck. When I was finally able to go out I told her where I was going and left her my number in a message. She got home and called me immediately and ran up to the bar even though it was closing in 20 minutes. A friend found that "interesting." She was going out of town for a few days but we decided to hang out again when she got back.
That was the 26th. Again with the same group of people. Heard several times during the night that we looked "right" together and that we "worked." Someone even joked before I walked her out to her car that I had "better kiss her tonight." We said goodbye. I go back inside and there's a text from a friend of mine that says "hey."
I go over to him and ask him what's up and he goes "You know that she's dating Adam (the guy who told me to date her) right?" I wound up sitting outside for the next 20 minuntes by myself until that friend's gf came out to sit with me. I finally cried the entire way home because I felt like my life was one big joke.
Depending on which version of the story is true, he either started dating her 2 days after he last told me I should date her or was already dating her when he told me to date her the last time. So either way he fucked me. I'm honestly not sure which version is worse. I would get to the bottom of this but it will be ugly. I am NOT happy at all. I want to confront him but any answer is probably going to lead to me choking him.
So needless to say I'm very hurt, confused, and not trusting of anyone right now.
clio:
agreed. more coming up soon though 