It never ceases to amaze me at how judgemental and biased the people on this site are capable of being. I mean... I joined this site to look at hot naked women to be sure. I am friggin' DEPLOYED and SG.com has been the source of 80 percent of all the tits and ass I have seen in the last 15 months. (Other web pages account for 18 percent, and my wife makes up the last two percent. Margin of error is two percent.)
Anyway... So I have been in this "discussion" with some people about cuckholdry of all things. Somebody started off the topic with a comment about how cuckholdry has roots in racist traditions... And that is pretty much what the entire thread has been about. My point in the discussion was to mention that PERHAPS some men enjoy being the subject of cuckholdry, while others enjoy being the man essentially being used to cuckhold another man. I made some long and drawn out arguments in relation to this, and if you care to read them, I can try to post a link or something.
Regardless, I took the position that attempted to justify IN PART the "myth" of black men with huge penises. To be sure, not all black men have a huge penis. But SOME do. Just like some white men, some asian men, some indian men... yada yada yada. But there is a little sub-culture out there that seeks out black men with huge cocks. These people call it racist, while I say that these guys that participate in this stuff do it because they enjoy it. I mean, I shouldn't have to say that out loud. Men having sex with women because they enjoy having sex with those women? How DARE they! But because I at least in part defended the "racist" basis of the "huge black cock" myth (which I really didn't defend it at all actually, I just played Devil's Advocate) all of a sudden I am a racist shitbag.
People can be so judgemental. Even when they actively join web pages where "beautiful" women aren't judged. Or objectified at all! (Yeah, right.) Or at least aren't supposed to be. Oh well. Fucking double standards and shit.
Kind of like today. I was standing in the DFAC (dining hall) getting "to go" meals for my co-workers. Some SSG (staff sergeant) walks up and starts bitching to his guys that a SPC (specialist, two pay grades lower) told him he couldn't get a soda "to go." He (the SPC) said that the sodas are reserved for those people that dine in. This pissed off the SSG to no end. He said something along the lines of how he ought to be able to drink a soda if he wants to, because he never gets the opportunity to dine in. First of all, I choose not to believe this. NO ONE in Kuwait works so many hours that they simply have no time to go to the chow hall. It simply does not happen. But then he goes on not even two minutes later into a conversation with one of his soldiers. This soldier, a female, was complaining to him that she wasn't being taken seriously in her duties when telling others what they can and can not do. And you know what this SSG said to her? He explained that, when she is on duty, she is a dually appointed representative of her commanding officer and chain of command. If she says that someone has to do something, it is because someone else told her how to do her job and she is only following orders. And that if they have a problem with this, "tell them to come and talk to me." NO SHIT!!!! He almost literally said all of this in the same breath as the "bullshit specialist" comments! I about wanted to bitch slap the motherfucker. In other words "follow the rules of others, unless they interfere with what it is that I want to do." Fucking double standards.
On a slightly related note, I found out today that I may very well be coming home much sooner than I originally expected! Probably by about twenty days. That would be very nice, because the sexual frustration is getting so thick that I can cut it. Literally. Don't ask for details that you don't want to know. Just trust me.
And please pardon the spelling errors. Its friggin 0130 in the AM over here.
Anyway... So I have been in this "discussion" with some people about cuckholdry of all things. Somebody started off the topic with a comment about how cuckholdry has roots in racist traditions... And that is pretty much what the entire thread has been about. My point in the discussion was to mention that PERHAPS some men enjoy being the subject of cuckholdry, while others enjoy being the man essentially being used to cuckhold another man. I made some long and drawn out arguments in relation to this, and if you care to read them, I can try to post a link or something.
Regardless, I took the position that attempted to justify IN PART the "myth" of black men with huge penises. To be sure, not all black men have a huge penis. But SOME do. Just like some white men, some asian men, some indian men... yada yada yada. But there is a little sub-culture out there that seeks out black men with huge cocks. These people call it racist, while I say that these guys that participate in this stuff do it because they enjoy it. I mean, I shouldn't have to say that out loud. Men having sex with women because they enjoy having sex with those women? How DARE they! But because I at least in part defended the "racist" basis of the "huge black cock" myth (which I really didn't defend it at all actually, I just played Devil's Advocate) all of a sudden I am a racist shitbag.
People can be so judgemental. Even when they actively join web pages where "beautiful" women aren't judged. Or objectified at all! (Yeah, right.) Or at least aren't supposed to be. Oh well. Fucking double standards and shit.
Kind of like today. I was standing in the DFAC (dining hall) getting "to go" meals for my co-workers. Some SSG (staff sergeant) walks up and starts bitching to his guys that a SPC (specialist, two pay grades lower) told him he couldn't get a soda "to go." He (the SPC) said that the sodas are reserved for those people that dine in. This pissed off the SSG to no end. He said something along the lines of how he ought to be able to drink a soda if he wants to, because he never gets the opportunity to dine in. First of all, I choose not to believe this. NO ONE in Kuwait works so many hours that they simply have no time to go to the chow hall. It simply does not happen. But then he goes on not even two minutes later into a conversation with one of his soldiers. This soldier, a female, was complaining to him that she wasn't being taken seriously in her duties when telling others what they can and can not do. And you know what this SSG said to her? He explained that, when she is on duty, she is a dually appointed representative of her commanding officer and chain of command. If she says that someone has to do something, it is because someone else told her how to do her job and she is only following orders. And that if they have a problem with this, "tell them to come and talk to me." NO SHIT!!!! He almost literally said all of this in the same breath as the "bullshit specialist" comments! I about wanted to bitch slap the motherfucker. In other words "follow the rules of others, unless they interfere with what it is that I want to do." Fucking double standards.
On a slightly related note, I found out today that I may very well be coming home much sooner than I originally expected! Probably by about twenty days. That would be very nice, because the sexual frustration is getting so thick that I can cut it. Literally. Don't ask for details that you don't want to know. Just trust me.
And please pardon the spelling errors. Its friggin 0130 in the AM over here.
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"To me it appears that, in order for you to be happy, you have to start off happy and remain that way at all times. If something occurs that you can focus your attention on, it will take away from any enjoyment you could get out of the relationship. You say he spends his focus on 50 different things instead of you. From what I've read here, you are also spreading your focus around as well. But for different reasons."
Does that mean I'm asking for too much? What else am I focusing my energy on, just the bad things? I just don't really know what you mean. It's true though that maybe I'm waiting for this to fail because I just got out of a serious relationship and I'm not happy with myself right now and so I can't be happy with him you know?
There's a lot of stuff about him that is personality problems that I see as annoying and don't want to deal with, I also have never not had a boyfriend so I'm scared to be alone you know?
Yes I'm in college. It sucks lol.