Today I have decided to write about something that is important to me. Too many people take this for granted. As most of you know I am a proud mother of 2 beautiful children. This blog will lean more towards mothers but all parents should read this and maybe give their own input on the subject.
Motherhood is a precious gift that is given to us and as a mother myself it pains me to see mothers out there that seem to only care about themselves or they care more about their wants than their own children's. I think that if you have a child (even if you didn't really want them to begin with) you should feel blessed that unlike some unfortunate souls you were able to have one because there are women who can not and they would give anything just to be able to experience that. I know females who think that just because it was not their choice to get pregnant that they don't have to take their role all that seriously. To me children are our future and without them who will take care of us when we are no longer physically or mentally capable of doing it ourselves??
One common problem I see with parents is they seem to think that as long as they are providing then they are doing what is expected of them but they do not realize how far from the truth they really are. Being a parent is not just about taking care of a child it is about raising them and giving them the love and attention they need.
I hate to see mothers leaving their kids with babysitters all the time because their social life is more important or the mother's who get stuck on some idiot who put their children second to them or the mother's who think they have to make a bunch of money to be happy. If you can make lots of money and still be a proper parent then by all means go ahead and do so. Also, as a parent I do understand that we need to have some kind of time to ourselves but that does not mean we should be hitting the clubs or whatever almost every weekend. I wanted so much to meet my prince charming and although I have met him I can assure you it did not happen without the consent of my son so if you think you can be happy with someone your child don't approve of and still live happily ever after THINK AGAIN because even though you will have your significant other you will end up losing your child and how can you be happy about that?.
We so often forget that once we have a child our life is no longer about us it is about them so whether we like it or not in a way they are in control of what happens in our future. If your child hates your job QUIT if your child hates your boyfriend/girlfriend DUMP THEM and if they tell you your gone to much STAY HOME. Now I know what your thinking.. well how am I suppose to make money, fall in love or get things done right? Well, from experience I can honestly say that you will figure it out and as long as you have raised your child to be respectful and love you unconditionally then you should not have a kid that will try to make decisions to make your life miserable. Now i am not saying you should take advice from your 4 year old lol but if you know your child you should know when to listen. please please PLEASE! raise your child to better our future not make it worse. Give them lots and lots of love as much as you can manage because in doing so you are teaching them to love as well and that is our cure for the cruel hate filled shit hole we live in. I mean do you really want to die knowing your kid is just another idiot or a-hole you created to make the world a worse place than it already is? or do you want to die knowing you created someone special.. hell maybe you could even raise the next honest abe or martin luther king. Personally as long as my kids grow up to be one of those people who we are amazed by because they are such good hearted people then I will be happy and feel I have done right by them. All I ever wanted in life was to be loved by someone as much or even more than I loved them but it was not until recently I realized that, that love was going to come from my kids. I always tell people that even if i die single I don't care because my kids are all I truly need.
Oh yes, one thing I forgot.. DO NOT SPOIL YOUR KIDS WITH MATERIALISTIC BULLSHIT. SPOIL THEM WITH LOVE ONLY! They do not care regardless of whether you are capable of buying your own private island
they will love you just as much if you were living in a cardboard box. All they want is your love. Besides, we have enough superficial people in this world thanks. 
Motherhood is a precious gift that is given to us and as a mother myself it pains me to see mothers out there that seem to only care about themselves or they care more about their wants than their own children's. I think that if you have a child (even if you didn't really want them to begin with) you should feel blessed that unlike some unfortunate souls you were able to have one because there are women who can not and they would give anything just to be able to experience that. I know females who think that just because it was not their choice to get pregnant that they don't have to take their role all that seriously. To me children are our future and without them who will take care of us when we are no longer physically or mentally capable of doing it ourselves??
One common problem I see with parents is they seem to think that as long as they are providing then they are doing what is expected of them but they do not realize how far from the truth they really are. Being a parent is not just about taking care of a child it is about raising them and giving them the love and attention they need.
I hate to see mothers leaving their kids with babysitters all the time because their social life is more important or the mother's who get stuck on some idiot who put their children second to them or the mother's who think they have to make a bunch of money to be happy. If you can make lots of money and still be a proper parent then by all means go ahead and do so. Also, as a parent I do understand that we need to have some kind of time to ourselves but that does not mean we should be hitting the clubs or whatever almost every weekend. I wanted so much to meet my prince charming and although I have met him I can assure you it did not happen without the consent of my son so if you think you can be happy with someone your child don't approve of and still live happily ever after THINK AGAIN because even though you will have your significant other you will end up losing your child and how can you be happy about that?.
We so often forget that once we have a child our life is no longer about us it is about them so whether we like it or not in a way they are in control of what happens in our future. If your child hates your job QUIT if your child hates your boyfriend/girlfriend DUMP THEM and if they tell you your gone to much STAY HOME. Now I know what your thinking.. well how am I suppose to make money, fall in love or get things done right? Well, from experience I can honestly say that you will figure it out and as long as you have raised your child to be respectful and love you unconditionally then you should not have a kid that will try to make decisions to make your life miserable. Now i am not saying you should take advice from your 4 year old lol but if you know your child you should know when to listen. please please PLEASE! raise your child to better our future not make it worse. Give them lots and lots of love as much as you can manage because in doing so you are teaching them to love as well and that is our cure for the cruel hate filled shit hole we live in. I mean do you really want to die knowing your kid is just another idiot or a-hole you created to make the world a worse place than it already is? or do you want to die knowing you created someone special.. hell maybe you could even raise the next honest abe or martin luther king. Personally as long as my kids grow up to be one of those people who we are amazed by because they are such good hearted people then I will be happy and feel I have done right by them. All I ever wanted in life was to be loved by someone as much or even more than I loved them but it was not until recently I realized that, that love was going to come from my kids. I always tell people that even if i die single I don't care because my kids are all I truly need.
Oh yes, one thing I forgot.. DO NOT SPOIL YOUR KIDS WITH MATERIALISTIC BULLSHIT. SPOIL THEM WITH LOVE ONLY! They do not care regardless of whether you are capable of buying your own private island
they will love you just as much if you were living in a cardboard box. All they want is your love. Besides, we have enough superficial people in this world thanks. VIEW 5 of 5 COMMENTS
People assume way to much these days