here is what we believe to have decided so far..
-deff an outside wedding
- big ( our familys alone are huge :whatever
- not fancy
- red and black color scheme
- roses and daisies as our flowers
lol for once i feel all girly, and usually i hate it but right now im loving it
missymalice:
that's so awesome.
congrats, girlie. 
mydogfarted:
Look into buffet vs. sit down dinner. We did it at my first wedding, and it was significantly cheaper.