ok people, answer me this..
you make friends with someone over the internet. shortly after, the idea of exchanging numbers come up and successfully things switch over from the net to phone.. after some 3 months, you decide to call your friend(as would be normal by now) to chat as usual, but instead of that person picking up, someone different answers and tells you that 'you have the wrong number'. a brief relay of the said number confirms that indeed it was the same phone line that dialed you and you in turn dialed for 3 months.
What do you do? Get angry -as in feeling lied to (about the persons identity for example) and just drop everything? Step back and see if that person calls back by that number, and try to find out what happend? OR.. try to get to the bottom of it with the new person youre speaking to, possibly getting the true ID of who you've been speaking to for such an extended period of time?
you make friends with someone over the internet. shortly after, the idea of exchanging numbers come up and successfully things switch over from the net to phone.. after some 3 months, you decide to call your friend(as would be normal by now) to chat as usual, but instead of that person picking up, someone different answers and tells you that 'you have the wrong number'. a brief relay of the said number confirms that indeed it was the same phone line that dialed you and you in turn dialed for 3 months.
What do you do? Get angry -as in feeling lied to (about the persons identity for example) and just drop everything? Step back and see if that person calls back by that number, and try to find out what happend? OR.. try to get to the bottom of it with the new person youre speaking to, possibly getting the true ID of who you've been speaking to for such an extended period of time?
i suppose the gamble you made was meeting up with someone on the internet and attempting to develop it past cyber-friendship. i'd say that's a tough road to take. but hey, there are tons of fish in the cyber-sea...so go knit.