I've never written one of these so here it goes.
Ok let me start by saying that I've been single for 4067 days or 11 years 1 month and 20 days . I know damn .
Let me say that I've tried to get a girlfriend but I'm shy so any girl I like I can't talk to . Now if I know I don't have a chance I can talk to them all day provided I can find something to talk to them about in the first place .
But this is about me asking for advice on how to talk to women . I know confidence key but I guess I'm looking on ways on how to talk to women without scaring them. Not like I talk about blood and gore or anything but I'm not sure how to start the conversation.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
merovie:
First off, find some common ground. What are you into? (I don't mean kink wise.) Find out if a girl is into some of the same things. As a goth and industrial kid with a sick sense of humor and interest in nerd shit like graphic novels, it wasn't hard (In New Orleans at least) to find nerdy goth girls I had something in common with, such as music, strange and obscure films, comics, and truly dark and sick humor.
matterz:
Think the internet is a great place for this as you can talk to people without the stress and pressure of meeting face to face stright off the bat. Id suggest looking at it as trying to get to know something about someone, and dont put the pressure of 'how do i get them to like me'. I know when i thought about it that way it made it easier to relax.