I have a dilemma... I commute 55 miles(round trip) to a job that I hate every day. It's very physicaly demanding, and vitually sucks the life out of me. My wife on the other hand, works at home, on her computer, in her pajamas all day. All I want to do on the weekend is to hang at home, have a few beers and relax. All my wife wants to do is get out of the house, not drink anything, and drive to the beach. I always give in, and we always do what she wants to do. But lately, giving in and doing what she wants to do isn't enough for her. I need to actually want to do the same things she does. Well... I don't know how to want to do something I don't want to do, if that makes any sense at all. How do I completely change how I feel and what I want. If I don't, it ruins both our weekends.... Help!!! 
kas:
you should get to relax on the weekends at home if you want! maybe she could go to the beach with friends sometime? You shouldn't always have to do what she wants, 50/50 right? 