Hey all, long time no talk.
So I liked this guy, and I thought I liked him, but he tried to put the moves on me after technically "dating" a week. NOw, in the past I have been known to be a prude, but this time was an exception. I looked forward to seeing this guy (we work together, and have seen each other outside of work three times) and thought I really liked him.
But last night, I was already in a bad mood because me and baby daddy got in a stupid disagreement and I was totally not into spending time with the dude, but he kept trying to touch me, kiss me, etc and then I told him that I am somewhere else right now and that it would be better for him to leave around 9 pm (he got there at 7). After I said that, he said no pressure, we are here to have fun, I am not going to make you do anything you don't want to do, etc. I smiled and said thank you.
Not two minutes after he said that, he asked me "So, tomorrow night at the party, are you going to crash at my place.... oh probably not because of (illmatic dove), see if she can drive separately because you are cutting out some hours on me and we have to get this done some time..." The a** was indicating he wanted me to shack up with him tomorrow night, right after I explained to him how i was feeling and that I wanted to take things slow because I am freaking out about my situation changing. So I told him to get out. Then he called me 10 minutes later, probably to apologize. I didn't answer the phone. I thought he liked me because he accepted my beautiful baby...but wanting to sleep with me after a week isn't an indication that he is really concerned about what I am comfortable with...is it?
So my question to you, furry friends, is..... does it sound like I am really just not ready to date or that he is a jerk. Or am I just a prude? Comments....suggestions....sometimes I feel like such a little girl trapped in a woman's body....
So I liked this guy, and I thought I liked him, but he tried to put the moves on me after technically "dating" a week. NOw, in the past I have been known to be a prude, but this time was an exception. I looked forward to seeing this guy (we work together, and have seen each other outside of work three times) and thought I really liked him.
But last night, I was already in a bad mood because me and baby daddy got in a stupid disagreement and I was totally not into spending time with the dude, but he kept trying to touch me, kiss me, etc and then I told him that I am somewhere else right now and that it would be better for him to leave around 9 pm (he got there at 7). After I said that, he said no pressure, we are here to have fun, I am not going to make you do anything you don't want to do, etc. I smiled and said thank you.
Not two minutes after he said that, he asked me "So, tomorrow night at the party, are you going to crash at my place.... oh probably not because of (illmatic dove), see if she can drive separately because you are cutting out some hours on me and we have to get this done some time..." The a** was indicating he wanted me to shack up with him tomorrow night, right after I explained to him how i was feeling and that I wanted to take things slow because I am freaking out about my situation changing. So I told him to get out. Then he called me 10 minutes later, probably to apologize. I didn't answer the phone. I thought he liked me because he accepted my beautiful baby...but wanting to sleep with me after a week isn't an indication that he is really concerned about what I am comfortable with...is it?
So my question to you, furry friends, is..... does it sound like I am really just not ready to date or that he is a jerk. Or am I just a prude? Comments....suggestions....sometimes I feel like such a little girl trapped in a woman's body....
i am in no way saying i'm an expert here, but just putting out suggestions like you asked. any help to you?