So my ex lives in the same town as me...she was my first love. We have been broken up for like four years now. She is 21 and has a 30 year old boyfriend who has two kids from a previous marriage. I am still very attracted to her. We broke up because we were just young and stupid and weren't ready for anything as serious as we were becoming. So we dated for two years then broke up. I can tell we both grew up alot since then and everytime we see each other we flirt horribly. I can tell that she still finds me attractive as well. I almost hate it when i see her because it always gets me thinking that maybe we could work again if we started over because i still feel all the passion that i felt when we first met. What I want to know is.....are these feelings realistic? Or is my mind just reverting back to the past? What should i do about it? Or should i just let it go and try to move on?
help me.
help me.
I think you know what has to be done. You know what is best for you and for her. Following those guides in your heart and head.
I hope you make the right choice.
Have a good one!
If she's really into you, she'll ditch the boyfriend. Otherwise, there's not much you can do. I think she probably knows how you feel, but you could tell her just to make sure.