Happy Birthday to my wifey Dollbabyamy 
Too adorable!
I wonder if she did indeed buy that nurse's uniform?
I'm sick..Hmm..You should get the girl cop one. You and him, would be a hot duo.
Ah for starters I should plug my friend's radio station of sorts..
Alternative,Classic,Hard Rock
and he does requests. Had forced him to play 1 hiphop/reggae/latin song just to mix things. Very eclectic. If ya can, go listen.
how ya doing MPM?
Gonna be another scorcher.
My plans for today...plant some flowers in my yard. Just love playing with dirt. Beautifying my yard with my creations.
Wash the dog, 
burn for a bit 
and then meeting my friend whom I havent seen in months.
He's treating me to a movie and some korean fruit juice/tea.. dont know but he swears its good. Not a date!
I mean if we have belching contests then it cant be anymore than a simple outing.
Might write some more later, depending how exciting my life gets within the next couple of hours.
Damnit got emailed this..lol
Stuck in a bad dating rut?
By Sally Schultheiss
If you had a party and invited all of the men youve dated, would your apartment look like fraternity row? Would the gathering be mistaken for a tortured artist convention?
Its no revelation that many women have a type. Sometimes that type is marked by superficial qualitiestall, dark, and handsomebut more often its a common psychological, emotional, even pathological profile. The men you date can look different, dress differently, have different jobs, says Marilyn Graman, a psychotherapist based in New York City and author of There is No Prince, and Other Truths Your Mother Never Told You. But they probably have something deeper, and darker, in common. Maybe they always have something more important to do than spend time with you. Maybe theres always another woman lurking around. Maybe theyre really self-centered.
So if you know youre stuck in a bad-guy cycle, what can you do to break out? After all, its not so easy to switch your chemical attraction from one type to another, even if you want to intellectually. These three steps can help put you on the path to finding a new (and better!) kind of love.
Step 1: Say yes to everyone
How many times have you seen a picture of your friends single cousin, or met a guy at a party who you later hear is interested in you and think, Nope, itll never work. Hes not my type? Well, start noticing men youd never be interested in, says Graman. If you see someone on the train, think Some woman has loved this man, or What would a woman see in him? Open your mind. Consider that someone not your type might be interesting. Monica Carranza, 28, used to go for jocks who never really loved me, until a big breakup sent her soul-searching. I moved from New York to Chicago right after he dumped me and decided to date anyone and everyone who asked me out, even if they werent my type. A lot of them didnt work out, but then I met John. He was on the short side, scrawny, and very smart. Not my type at ALL. I cant say it was immediate, but I fell madly in love with him and weve been together ever since.
Step 2: Dont bail too early
So youve taken the big first step and have started dating a so-not-your-type type. How do you hang on even though theres not the usual, immediate spark? I started dating a guy who was way too nice for me, says Mary Jensen, 35, of Seattle, Washington. He didnt play games, he was always free to hang out, but I just didnt have butterflies. I decided not to over-think it and just have fun. After a few weeks, I started to really like him. He relaxed around me and started to be more himself and now when I see him, I do get those butterflies. Moral of the story? A not-my-type can turn into just-my-type given the chance.
Step 3: Put yourself before the guy
According to experts, breaking the pattern is all about building your self-esteem. The more you care about yourself, the more youll be attracted to someone who treats you well, says Graman. Sophie Chiche, 43, lives in Beverly Hills and is happily married. Her type turnaround came when she was 22. I was going out with a guy who was just like the othersspontaneous, impetuous, romantic. But he always kept me waiting. I would often sit for an hour before he showed up for dinner. One night I decided, If hes five minutes late, Im going to get up a leave. It was really hard, but I did it, and he had the nerve to call me an hour later and yell at me! That one little step was so out of character for me, but it helped me eventually start to respect myself.
The supreme self-respect thing may take some practice. You can help it along, says Brenda Schaeffer, a psychologist and author of Is It Love or Is It Addiction?, by reaffirming positive thoughts about men and love. Remind yourself that you deserve a great relationship and that there are men out there who can deliver on thatones you could be attracted to. Schaeffer says you may actually have to program yourself for a better future. That means admitting you made mistakes in the past, acknowledging what youve learned, and allowing yourself to believe youll find love again. Only this time, itll be with someone whos more your new type.
Too adorable!
I wonder if she did indeed buy that nurse's uniform?
I'm sick..Hmm..You should get the girl cop one. You and him, would be a hot duo.
Ah for starters I should plug my friend's radio station of sorts..
Alternative,Classic,Hard Rock
and he does requests. Had forced him to play 1 hiphop/reggae/latin song just to mix things. Very eclectic. If ya can, go listen.
how ya doing MPM?
Gonna be another scorcher.
My plans for today...plant some flowers in my yard. Just love playing with dirt. Beautifying my yard with my creations.
Wash the dog, burn for a bit and then meeting my friend whom I havent seen in months.
He's treating me to a movie and some korean fruit juice/tea.. dont know but he swears its good. Not a date!
I mean if we have belching contests then it cant be anymore than a simple outing.
Might write some more later, depending how exciting my life gets within the next couple of hours.
Damnit got emailed this..lol
Stuck in a bad dating rut?
By Sally Schultheiss
If you had a party and invited all of the men youve dated, would your apartment look like fraternity row? Would the gathering be mistaken for a tortured artist convention?
Its no revelation that many women have a type. Sometimes that type is marked by superficial qualitiestall, dark, and handsomebut more often its a common psychological, emotional, even pathological profile. The men you date can look different, dress differently, have different jobs, says Marilyn Graman, a psychotherapist based in New York City and author of There is No Prince, and Other Truths Your Mother Never Told You. But they probably have something deeper, and darker, in common. Maybe they always have something more important to do than spend time with you. Maybe theres always another woman lurking around. Maybe theyre really self-centered.
So if you know youre stuck in a bad-guy cycle, what can you do to break out? After all, its not so easy to switch your chemical attraction from one type to another, even if you want to intellectually. These three steps can help put you on the path to finding a new (and better!) kind of love.
Step 1: Say yes to everyone
How many times have you seen a picture of your friends single cousin, or met a guy at a party who you later hear is interested in you and think, Nope, itll never work. Hes not my type? Well, start noticing men youd never be interested in, says Graman. If you see someone on the train, think Some woman has loved this man, or What would a woman see in him? Open your mind. Consider that someone not your type might be interesting. Monica Carranza, 28, used to go for jocks who never really loved me, until a big breakup sent her soul-searching. I moved from New York to Chicago right after he dumped me and decided to date anyone and everyone who asked me out, even if they werent my type. A lot of them didnt work out, but then I met John. He was on the short side, scrawny, and very smart. Not my type at ALL. I cant say it was immediate, but I fell madly in love with him and weve been together ever since.
Step 2: Dont bail too early
So youve taken the big first step and have started dating a so-not-your-type type. How do you hang on even though theres not the usual, immediate spark? I started dating a guy who was way too nice for me, says Mary Jensen, 35, of Seattle, Washington. He didnt play games, he was always free to hang out, but I just didnt have butterflies. I decided not to over-think it and just have fun. After a few weeks, I started to really like him. He relaxed around me and started to be more himself and now when I see him, I do get those butterflies. Moral of the story? A not-my-type can turn into just-my-type given the chance.
Step 3: Put yourself before the guy
According to experts, breaking the pattern is all about building your self-esteem. The more you care about yourself, the more youll be attracted to someone who treats you well, says Graman. Sophie Chiche, 43, lives in Beverly Hills and is happily married. Her type turnaround came when she was 22. I was going out with a guy who was just like the othersspontaneous, impetuous, romantic. But he always kept me waiting. I would often sit for an hour before he showed up for dinner. One night I decided, If hes five minutes late, Im going to get up a leave. It was really hard, but I did it, and he had the nerve to call me an hour later and yell at me! That one little step was so out of character for me, but it helped me eventually start to respect myself.
The supreme self-respect thing may take some practice. You can help it along, says Brenda Schaeffer, a psychologist and author of Is It Love or Is It Addiction?, by reaffirming positive thoughts about men and love. Remind yourself that you deserve a great relationship and that there are men out there who can deliver on thatones you could be attracted to. Schaeffer says you may actually have to program yourself for a better future. That means admitting you made mistakes in the past, acknowledging what youve learned, and allowing yourself to believe youll find love again. Only this time, itll be with someone whos more your new type.