ok ladies and gents. get this. i was dating this guy and we were just argueing like ridiculously.it was horrible. BUUUUT the make up sex was always AMAZING!! so we stuck it out 4 a while. well recently we broke it off and we r still kind of going back and forth on the idea but ive decided that it just doesnt sound like a good idea. i want to b single. ive been sober like 52 days and im hating it!! how the hell r u supposed 2 get over an ex sober?! no drunkin 1 nite stand?! how is that possible? and ive noticed im actually caring about this stupid boy!! i nvr care about men. no offense but guys r supposed 2 b my play things. i am the master at stringing guys along like little puppy dogs. i make them fall in love with me and then i get bored and screw some1 else. its not like i dont tell them the day i meet them. i ALWAYS ALWAYS say. be careful. ill break ur heart. but this time i feel funny. did i do something wrong?? y am i actually caring about this person....or am i?? is it just because im sober and havent found my 1 niter yet?! please. ne1 have ne ideas or thoughts?? they would b great help. thanx.
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People fall for one another. Whether you've ever fallen in love with someone or not, it's bound to happen one day. You may have grown attracted to him and hence why you think about him still. Having a one night stand might solve your problem or they may make the situation worse. It depends how much you actually care about him. A lot of people in your situation end up having a one nighter and feel like shit. Others can just learn to ignore the feelings they have for someone and screw around without feeling the guilt (most men who consider themselves "players" fit this category). I don't know how much you guys meant to each other and how long you guys dated but that may just be the case. I think you have feelings for him and just have trouble admitting it to yourself. It's not a big deal, just admit to them and move on. That or go back to him and make an attempt at a relationship. Either way, you'll be happy once you know what path to take.