dominanefret

Whenever I say that I am a good girl, no one believes me.

Inevitably they laugh at me. They say "no you're not" or "you're totally a bad girl" or some variety of one of those responses.

But I am a good girl.
I drink very, very rarely, and when I do I never get drunk. At the most I get slightly tipsy and even then that happens very rarely. I don't smoke, I don't do drugs. I don't "party".

My Idea of a perfect night is sitting at home knitting, playing with my kitty, reading a book, maybe watching one of my TV shows, spending some time writing, and talking to some friends.

I love Nancy Drew. She is my favouritest.

A hopping good party for me involves a rowdy game of Apples to Apples or perhaps Lunch Money.

This isn't to say I don't enjoy getting naked in a hot tub with some friends and being silly and having a goofy good time, but I don't feel like that is being bad. I also don't feel like enjoying sexual situations is being "bad" either.

It seems like so often people immediately judge you based on your physical appearance and decide whether or not you are good or bad based on that. Therefor because I have a lot of visible piercings and tattoos, I have been labeled as a "bad girl". Or at least not good. It's aggravating.