So my main new years resolution this year is to get better at orgasming.
One of the ways I want to go about doing this is to masturbate more often. I used to masturbate only once a month, or maybe every other month. I figure if I start attempting to masturbate more often, that perhaps it will make it possible for people to make me orgasm more often. So I have decided to start masturbating at least once a week.
I have also decided that I need to take a far more active roll in regards to making other people make me orgasm. It is very very very hard to have someone other than my make me orgasm, and practically impossible for it to be anything other than clitoral. And someone making me orgasm with their hands? Forget about it.
This needs to change. I cannot live my life not orgasming! I can't live my life saying "it's okay hon. You can stop trying now. It isn't going to happen."
And I want to start having GOOD orgasms. I have a feeling all of the orgasms I have ever had have either been bad or mediocre at best. I need to do experimenting and find if there are any spots that I really really like. I know that most of the traditional spots don't do anything for me at all. Neck, breasts, ears, etc all do jack shit for me. There has to be somewhere that will drive me wild, or at least some circumstances in which those places will.
I need to practice more with roll playing. I know that me being dominant really really turns me on, but it isn't something that I have had any opportunity to experiment with. So many of the guys I have been with have been very vanilla, or if they haven't been vanilla they have had very very specific Ideas as to how things are supposed to be. The girls have been more open to experimentation, but it is harder to land a girl.
Part of it I think is that I need to have sex with a penis that isn't gigantic. Super huge just hurts. There is too much pressure and too much painful friction. Like getting an indian burn. I need a nice normal sized penis.
I also need a better variety of sex toys. Just my rabbit is no longer good enough. I need the type that plugs in. I need more things to play with.
I think this extended period of time without getting laid is a. very sad for someone as hot as me and b. making me thing about sex alot more than normal.
But I think I am gooing to go to the library and check out books on sex and masturbation and probably bdsm and other fetishes. Get some research and reading done.
I must get better at orgasming!
One of the ways I want to go about doing this is to masturbate more often. I used to masturbate only once a month, or maybe every other month. I figure if I start attempting to masturbate more often, that perhaps it will make it possible for people to make me orgasm more often. So I have decided to start masturbating at least once a week.
I have also decided that I need to take a far more active roll in regards to making other people make me orgasm. It is very very very hard to have someone other than my make me orgasm, and practically impossible for it to be anything other than clitoral. And someone making me orgasm with their hands? Forget about it.
This needs to change. I cannot live my life not orgasming! I can't live my life saying "it's okay hon. You can stop trying now. It isn't going to happen."
And I want to start having GOOD orgasms. I have a feeling all of the orgasms I have ever had have either been bad or mediocre at best. I need to do experimenting and find if there are any spots that I really really like. I know that most of the traditional spots don't do anything for me at all. Neck, breasts, ears, etc all do jack shit for me. There has to be somewhere that will drive me wild, or at least some circumstances in which those places will.
I need to practice more with roll playing. I know that me being dominant really really turns me on, but it isn't something that I have had any opportunity to experiment with. So many of the guys I have been with have been very vanilla, or if they haven't been vanilla they have had very very specific Ideas as to how things are supposed to be. The girls have been more open to experimentation, but it is harder to land a girl.
Part of it I think is that I need to have sex with a penis that isn't gigantic. Super huge just hurts. There is too much pressure and too much painful friction. Like getting an indian burn. I need a nice normal sized penis.
I also need a better variety of sex toys. Just my rabbit is no longer good enough. I need the type that plugs in. I need more things to play with.
I think this extended period of time without getting laid is a. very sad for someone as hot as me and b. making me thing about sex alot more than normal.
But I think I am gooing to go to the library and check out books on sex and masturbation and probably bdsm and other fetishes. Get some research and reading done.
I must get better at orgasming!
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corinthia:
One thing that I discovered about foreplay is that it's not the PLACE I'm touched, but the WAY I'm touched. Someone biting my neck? Doesn't really do a damn thing. But someone taking their finger and lightly stroking my neck and collarbone/shoulder? HOT HOT. You need to find a guy who just likes to touch a woman's body. (a la Richard or Jay). It might help arouse you.
clio:
Wow, thanks! She's hella hot! 