Modern tightropes
Frustration seeks to escape like a gas under pressure.
One thing you learn that cannot be demanded from other people, is answers. That doesn't stop you asking the questions though. Why after establishing a rappor with someone are you suddenly ignored. When seemingly so close to a beginning is an end put in place. We do it to others and it will be done to us. This can be accepted easily as time allows.
The conditions or unwritten rules of behaviour, that we get carried along by in our society, maybe are not questioned enough. Which gender owns desire? None. It exists in both.
Let the generalisations begin.
A very familiar expression - 'only after one thing' - almost exclusively resrved in reference to males, acts as a moderating influence to check male ardour, and somewhat comes to define males in society. This is counter balanced by another term - 'show her that your interested'. So you learn to walk the tightrope.
I don't think I would be speaking beyond my gender by making the assertion that female sensibilities require a readable, definite, level of physical desire in thier direction to satisfy the conditioning of the female gender.
I don't pretend to know what the female tightrope is and hope to be enlightened......
Why is such a price and a taboo still put on sex in our society. Both sexes want it and enjoy it equally. Would it not be better to establish if there is a compatibility and genuine natural lust between two newly introduced individuals, sooner rather than later. Maybe the precursory events that stand in place are there by way of introduction from the dawn of polite society. Fragile egos need defending from the shame of a less than desirable sexual appeal. Could save some time and lot of texts.
Beauty should not be sacred, it is a gift to be enjoyed by all. The reality might be that it is a commodity not equally shared among us and a currency of which some have much more to spend.
Frustration seeks to escape like a gas under pressure.
One thing you learn that cannot be demanded from other people, is answers. That doesn't stop you asking the questions though. Why after establishing a rappor with someone are you suddenly ignored. When seemingly so close to a beginning is an end put in place. We do it to others and it will be done to us. This can be accepted easily as time allows.
The conditions or unwritten rules of behaviour, that we get carried along by in our society, maybe are not questioned enough. Which gender owns desire? None. It exists in both.
Let the generalisations begin.
A very familiar expression - 'only after one thing' - almost exclusively resrved in reference to males, acts as a moderating influence to check male ardour, and somewhat comes to define males in society. This is counter balanced by another term - 'show her that your interested'. So you learn to walk the tightrope.
I don't think I would be speaking beyond my gender by making the assertion that female sensibilities require a readable, definite, level of physical desire in thier direction to satisfy the conditioning of the female gender.
I don't pretend to know what the female tightrope is and hope to be enlightened......
Why is such a price and a taboo still put on sex in our society. Both sexes want it and enjoy it equally. Would it not be better to establish if there is a compatibility and genuine natural lust between two newly introduced individuals, sooner rather than later. Maybe the precursory events that stand in place are there by way of introduction from the dawn of polite society. Fragile egos need defending from the shame of a less than desirable sexual appeal. Could save some time and lot of texts.
Beauty should not be sacred, it is a gift to be enjoyed by all. The reality might be that it is a commodity not equally shared among us and a currency of which some have much more to spend.