divi

yea I try to follow that one too. the problem with rules though is that they get broken so often. it's like once you make them, the opportunity to break them suddenly pops up all the time.

my attitude before I was with my partner was no sex while drunk unless the feelings between the us had been building up for a long long time prior to that. it seemed to work.......

was it that bad?

No, totally wasn't that bad. The situation just got sticky afterwords. It just makes more sense not to mix myself up in those situations...

... most of the time