Need to develop a thicker skin and be less sensitive 😭

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Today while looking at various threads etc on here I accidentally clicked on the profile of the one person (that i know of) who has blocked me. I was not creeping or stalking it was a genuine accident but thought i would have a quick browse of her page to see if i could get an idea of why she blocked me. The weird thing is the members she interacts with are a lot of the same ones that happily (hopefully) interact with me. And this got me all paranoid about why she blocked me etc but then i thought to myself why am i getting so worked up over this. I know I have done nothing wrong and surely that is all that should matter.

This got me thinking and made me realise that despite me saying i don't, that i care way too much about what people think of me and i need to stop this. Yes i strive to be respectful to all i interact with here and on socail media but that should not be to my own detriment (if that makes sense). I know i am a good nature, well intensioned person and that it is okay to admire and complement Beautiful men and women online in a respectful manner but if they don't like me then that is their problem. I need to be more of the thick skinned person i used to be about 32 years ago!!

Thank you for reading this, i know i tend to waffle a bit🤣 hope everyone is having a great week and if not that things get better.

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wolfetone11:
I’ll add more later, but basically what @bookcouple said.
jimmieknuckles:
I've been off the site for almost a decade, and upon returning , i found a couple dozen people that i interact with in the groups have me blocked. i can only assume this is based on what they may have been told by someone with whom i had a less than eventful relationship.this site can be a great resource for social interactions, and on the flip side, gossip. its not something i would seek out the source of. sometimes people aren't familiar with the block feature and do it by accident, other times people see me and remember that thing i said twenty years ago. either way, continue to be yourself, be a gentleman and  you will persevere.   also i always take comfort in remembering that the people that have me blocked went through he trouble to come to my page to do so, and most likely lurk it regularly. after all it only means you can't message them or like their posts, its nothing of any consequence

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