The first thing that i liked about being in such an accepting community as SG was that i could be honest about my sexuality and found a place i could truly be myself. But even here i feel unable to be truly open and still feel i have to be guarded. One big example of this is when women compliment other women's photos on here it is rightly regarded as a possitive thing, but i don't feel the same happens with men ☹ i see photos of men on SG that have impressive physiques, cool tattoos etc but i don't feel able to comment on or even just like their photos. As i know they would get notification that i was the one who clicked like on their photo they would not be happy. One of the reasons for this is i am in the silliness group which has a 'would you have sex with the person above you?' And it is full of strong comments of NO! From male members who have another man above them ! Whwn i first jioned i tryed to be honest and say yes when i man was above me but got the impression that was not acceptable ☹ not all the men in the group are like that and some will exchange in banter with me , thanks @wesker9 , ans realise it is all just fun🤣
