I realised that when i reply to certain threads like 'which member would you kiss', 'who is your womam crush wednesday' etc that i sometimes include one or more SG, Hopeful or member in more than one list as either i found their photos to be so beautiful or liked their blog/comments or usually both. But my worrying side of me was thinking today that i hope no one gets annoyed that i keep mentioning them in lists etc! I don't want anyone to think i am a stalker or anything but its probably just my PTSD causing me to worry about nothing againš¤£ā¹
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liath:
I understand.Ā Some of those "which member would you kiss" type threads make me feel like a complete creep.Ā I have to remind myself that it's a hypothetical situation, in which consent by all involved parties is implied.Ā You seem to be reasonable and sensitive to others' feelings.Ā Just take it slowly and get a feel for what individual people are comfortable with before you say anything.Ā Some women want to get to know a guy before flirting or even accepting genuine compliments, others love lines like "nice shoes, wanna fuck?"Ā The key is knowing which is which.
diddy_dave_uk:
Thanks for the input and kind words @liath ! I do sometimes have a problem with knowing what is appropriate to say to the beautiful women on here and those i follow on social media especially IG. Some have had the honesty of picking me up on things i have said and i am always gratefull for that. Ā Some members have said i should know better as it is only common sense. And while in some respects they are right, the fact that my only contacts in RL for the last 20 years are family i find socail interaction so awkward. Thanks for listening ill shut up now š¤£