Login
Forgot Password?

OR

Login with Google Login with Twitter Login with Facebook
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • SuicideGirls
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
Vital Stats

devyxx

Binghamton, NY

Member Since 2009

Followers 90 Following 36

  • Everything
  • Photos
  • Video
  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • From Others

Friday Jun 05, 2009

Jun 5, 2009
0
  • Facebook
  • Tweet
  • Email
Well, I'm in an open relationship, so sometimes I occasionally hook up with different people (usually a threesome, a lot of time I'm not comfortable meeting up with someone when I'm alone). Last night I was talking to a kinda-ex-girlfriend (It's complicated >.< ) and we strated talking about the idea of getting together sometime. But I worry: She seems to be getting emotionally attached, and I have a boyfriend who I care a whole lot about. It's hard for me to make it clear to her that I'm not willing to give him up for her, she's emotionally unstable and has been in and out of mental institutions, a couple times for breakdowns, and once most recently for attempted suicide. I'm very worried about her, and she tells me she's lonely, so I wanted to keep her company and give her something to feel good about. She has a negative self image and I think she needs to be told that she's beautiful, so I tell her. But like I said, she's emotionally needy. I'm kind of stressed out because I need to be there for her, but still establish boundaries. Any suggestions on what I should do???
pagz:
That's a really tough spot. I'm gonna say I think it would be a mistake to take that relationship anywhere physical. She's not in the head space where she can cope with that if you aren't in it for more than just sex. As good as it might make her feel about herself at the time, afterwards it's just going to drive her deeper into depression. Be her friend, reinforce that she's attractive and awesome, but keep it platonic. If she gets upset, just explain that you have a bf and you don't think it would be a good idea because she's going to want what you can't give her. Just let her know it's not that she's unattractive, but that you just don't want to see her get hurt.

Best I can suggest.
Jun 5, 2009
devyxx:
thank you.
:]
Jun 5, 2009

More Blogs

  • 06.26.09
    4

    Friday Jun 26, 2009

    Read More
  • 06.24.09
    1

    Wednesday Jun 24, 2009

    So, today I haven't showered, applied deodorant, or brushed my teeth.…
  • 06.21.09
    2

    Sunday Jun 21, 2009

    Well, I just got back from St. Simon's Island and I had a blast! I p…
  • 06.10.09
    2

    Wednesday Jun 10, 2009

    Well, I hurt my back trying to move, so I had to stop packing, which …
  • 06.05.09
    2

    Friday Jun 05, 2009

    Well, I'm in an open relationship, so sometimes I occasionally hook u…
  • 06.02.09
    2

    Tuesday Jun 02, 2009

    I think I may spend too much time on the computer... I've been on al…
  • 06.01.09
    2

    Monday Jun 01, 2009

    So... I got blocked from the site for no reason, and the admin would…
  • 05.28.09
    4

    Thursday May 28, 2009

    Read More
  • 05.27.09
    1

    Wednesday May 27, 2009

    :]

We at SuicideGirls have been celebrating alternative pin-up girls for:

24
years
3
months
16
days
  • 5,509,826 fans
  • 41,393 fans
  • 10,327,617 followers
  • 4,627 SuicideGirls
  • 1,113,818 followers
  • 15,025,831 photos
  • 321,315 followers
  • 61,636,578 comments
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
  • Help
  • About
  • Press
  • LIVE

Legal/Tos | DMCA | Privacy Policy | 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement | Complaint / Content Removal Policy | Contact Us | Vendo Payment Support
©SuicideGirls 2001-2025

Press enter to search
Fast Hi-res

Click here to join & see it all...

Crop your photo