Saturday May 24, 2008

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I think this is the beginning of the end. I can't help but feel like the relationship I've been in for the last year is not existent for the reasons that it should be; because he wants me....because he needs me....because he loves me. No, I think he has settled for me. I've never dated someone who was so fucking blah about me and being in a relationship with me. And we've lived together for pretty much the entire time we've been together. I think what his deal is is that he needs to have someone around all the time. I guess you could say automatic company whenever he wants it. I (a total Libra), on the other hand, need to be needed and wanted by someone. Libras are happiest when in relationships and that's me. So I need to mean something to somebody and he needs to just have another person around all the time. And I think he settled for me. And every time that thought crosses my mind I feel really lonely. frown
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bountyhunter:
Im sorry to hear your situation. I have had the same thing before but she was the one who constantly needed someone around and wouldn't let me out of her sight. Im not into the zodiac stuff, but Im a Sag and I personally love having someone by my side to want and need, but not 24/7. To much of a good thing makes it blah and dull. Im lonely right now because I havent had someone to want and need in a long time and with what Im getting into with school and work, I will need someone there to back me up, give me strength when I need it the most and comfort me when the day is over.
keeperdesign:
Follow your heart. If you feel like the relationship isn't working, then it isn't--on one level or another, there's a problem. You seem like a cool enough person, and you're plenty foxy. You deserve to be with someone who is there & fully engaged in being with you.

Just my $.02.

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