Monday Dec 14, 2009

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well last ngiht i was really bored and my boyfriend was at work...... so i was poking around on his internet history. im not really supprised in what i found, all guys look at porn hahaha.... itwas pretty much naughty nurses and anal stuff.

lots of anal stuff, ive done it once for him and im never doing it again i hate it!! i really do! but it seems like he really really does like it. and im all for sexul exploration in relationships. i dont want to dissapoint him.
do u think i should have another go at it with me? i dont know, i like to please him sexually hahaha but i jsut dont feel comfortable doing it! it hurts me alot hahaha! frown i dunoo what to do...


anyone advice would be great!! thanks smile

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elusive:
From my minimal anal experience, some girls just don't like the feeling of anal, some LOVE it, and some find it painful as hell! Your boyfriend might be too big for you, or your body might just not like it.

Suggestion might be to try a small toy, or a butt plug, WITH your boyfriend... (or even let him use a finger to start). See if you can incorporate that into your sex play, and see how he reacts to it. You might even enjoy it and slooowly work your way up to full anal sex in time.

Some guys (and some girls, I'm sure) are more turned on by the idea of fucking your ass with something, or the visual of you getting something up there, than by the actual feeling of doing it.

The only advice I can give with 100% certainty is, don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. If you can't do the anal, then don't. smile He'll manage.
naughtydevil:
My girlfriend loves it now, she has better orgasms from anal than normal vaginal sex.
However she wasn't really into the idea when we first started experimenting. Start with fingers, and tell him to go Really slowly... even slower than he'll anticipate.
When your ready for the sex, just get him to slide the head of his penis in, and let it sit there for even a few minutes before he slides in deeper. She liked it when I slid just the head in and out.
Use lots of lube, take your time, stimulate your other regions and within a week I think you'll love it...

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