Yes kids here I am procrastinating yet again. I am still having major major writer's block. Psych paper absolutely due tomorrow. End of term.... Finals...argh!!!
What else is going on?
Went to the Fairmont Hotel today for the annual brunch with Santa with the fam. It was great except for my niece and nephew are devil spawn and were all over the place. They have the best food there and it is such a beautiful hotel. Very swank.
I had lunch the other day wtih a former flame. We have been an item off and on for the last five years. He's now engaged to someone who is not me. I have been reading this book "He's Just Not That Into You". Basically saying that guys know how they feel about you from the moment they meet you. If he wants you he will show it. No wondering no waiting. If a girl ends up wondering and waiting, he's just not that into you. So... testing this theory we had a discussion about this. In the book it says: when a guy says I love you but I am not in Love with you, he really means I don't love you at all and I don't want to hurt you. When he says I'm not ready for a relationship, he really means I am ready for one just not with you. So my friend says that's not true. Love is more complicated than that. I told him that was bullshit, either you love someone or you don't. There is no inbetween. Ofcourse he didn't agree. Stupid me I wonder "Is he talking about us?". Probably not and it's just me being a stupid girl and hoping that he is.
I want to know what do guys think about this book.
If you are really into a girl do you let her know? Do you liked to be asked out by a girl? Do you tell girls things just so you don't hurt their feelings. Are you calling and emailing a girl because you like her as a person and nothing else? Or are you just looking to get laid? The latter is my theory. Thanks. I am going to try and write some more on this paper. ARGH!! and double ARGH!!!
And ladies.. Do you think that we spend too much of our time waiting around for guys? Either waiting for them to ask us out, to call, to break up with a current gf, to move passed just friends to dating? I am starting to think we are. I know I have. Is it just me? Help me out peeps.
What else is going on?
Went to the Fairmont Hotel today for the annual brunch with Santa with the fam. It was great except for my niece and nephew are devil spawn and were all over the place. They have the best food there and it is such a beautiful hotel. Very swank.
I had lunch the other day wtih a former flame. We have been an item off and on for the last five years. He's now engaged to someone who is not me. I have been reading this book "He's Just Not That Into You". Basically saying that guys know how they feel about you from the moment they meet you. If he wants you he will show it. No wondering no waiting. If a girl ends up wondering and waiting, he's just not that into you. So... testing this theory we had a discussion about this. In the book it says: when a guy says I love you but I am not in Love with you, he really means I don't love you at all and I don't want to hurt you. When he says I'm not ready for a relationship, he really means I am ready for one just not with you. So my friend says that's not true. Love is more complicated than that. I told him that was bullshit, either you love someone or you don't. There is no inbetween. Ofcourse he didn't agree. Stupid me I wonder "Is he talking about us?". Probably not and it's just me being a stupid girl and hoping that he is.
I want to know what do guys think about this book.
If you are really into a girl do you let her know? Do you liked to be asked out by a girl? Do you tell girls things just so you don't hurt their feelings. Are you calling and emailing a girl because you like her as a person and nothing else? Or are you just looking to get laid? The latter is my theory. Thanks. I am going to try and write some more on this paper. ARGH!! and double ARGH!!!
And ladies.. Do you think that we spend too much of our time waiting around for guys? Either waiting for them to ask us out, to call, to break up with a current gf, to move passed just friends to dating? I am starting to think we are. I know I have. Is it just me? Help me out peeps.
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I wanted to tell you I adore when you comment. You offer so much insight and you're a great person. THank you for assisting my dumbass. :p
I would never do that to the child. HEll I still adore the kids mother. I just am not close with her anymore. But I do still care about her and all. I can't stop caring about her. I would love that child like I love her first son. He's my nephew whether she likes me or not. And the new one would be my boyfriends child and I'd love it like I love the other. :x