devil_bitch

Ok so he called me Monday afternoon. He says to me. I am so sorry about Sunday. My grandmother passed away late Saturday night. I said you could have called. He says he was too busy packing, dealing with his dysfunctional family, and flying back home to Texas. Then he says he should be home by Wednesday night and he will give me a call. See how this got started he was supposed to go to my Office Christmas Party with me as my date. (As well as some other things after that too) So we decided to meet beforehand and get the ackwardness out of the way. That is what Sunday was supposed to be, So he says to me I should be back in time to make it to the Christmas Party with you on Thursday. I was silent for a good 30 seconds, then I said it's not a big deal if you can't make it. Don't worry about it. That was about the end of the conversation. Now I have polled both sexes on this situation. So here are the options.

1. I give him the benefit of the doubt and take him to the party as planned.

2. I give him the benefit of the doubt and a second chance but don't take him to the party.

3. I tell him to Fuck off and never talk to him again.

Me: Leaning towards option # 3. Some people have told me that I should give him a chance. Then some have said even more so to give him a chance and bring him to the party. My plan: If he calls me when he gets home Wednesday we meet for coffee and talk. I wanna see his face when he talks to me. I want him to know that he can never disrespect me like that again if he wants it to be serious between us. He doesn't get to go to the party at all. We still continue with the plans for Friday night and Monday night if I feel comfortable.

I have been hurt before, sadly many times. But he made me feel so small and disgusting. I cried all fucking day long. There are a few men on this site who have crushed my little heart. But I gave them a second chance. Even if I got fucked over again I still tried to be friends with them. Some have lost that privledge all together. But I also said that I am no longer dating SG members. This guy found me on myspace. LOL. Maybe SG members ain't so bad.

Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I will be the best person in the world to you till you fuck me over. Then you need to watch your fucking back cuz I am gonna do some painful shit to you. I am very spiteful and vengeful. Don't let the love in my heart fool you. Ok sorry. I went off there for a minute.

What do you all think? What should I do about this guy?