Sooooo for anybody who reads this, which is nobody, the girlfreind moved out. I'm sleeping on the foor in the apartment cause I have no furniture. And no it wasn't like we split. She got a job 3 hours south and I stayed here to finish the getting the stuff done. The more I think about it the more I'm convinced that I'm not going to follow her. I've got a decent enough job here, good freinds who I can stay with, and I dont want be that far away from my kid. Decision is made.