well, my rent has gotten to be too expensive for me and I have decided to move in with my boyfriend...ive given this soo much thought but i think that if we get seperate rooms then it would make things easier...not that we dont get along its just that i like my space and so does he.
unfortunatley i have a cat and he is severely allergic to cats!! At first we thought he could take allergy meds and i could keep her clean but i dont think thats going to cut it
I feel so bad about giving her up!!! im going to miss her and i hope i dont regret this, plus i need to find a nice person who wants a cat!!
unfortunatley i have a cat and he is severely allergic to cats!! At first we thought he could take allergy meds and i could keep her clean but i dont think thats going to cut it
I feel so bad about giving her up!!! im going to miss her and i hope i dont regret this, plus i need to find a nice person who wants a cat!!
lexiedeluxe:
I think giving up a pet for a partner is a bad idea in general. If you break up one day (not saying that you will, but you never know), you'll really regret it. (I know you're thinking, "duh.") But even if you stay together forever, it will still always be this thing between you, that you had to give up your cat for him. If it were me, I'd push for the allergy meds/shots. Could you keep her in your room with the door closed, and sleep with him in his room? I feel for him, because I am horribly allergic to cats myself... but my girlfriend is about to move in with me, and if I had to give up my dog in order for that to happen (or if she had a cat), we'd be keeping separate apartments. Oops! Look at me, rambling on in your journal! Good luck with whatever you end up doing, and let me know when your feminist web site goes live.
lexiedeluxe:
You're welcome... let me know how it goes. 
And Tucker says thank you for the compliment...
And Tucker says thank you for the compliment...