It has recently occurred to me, mostly from talking to my friends at the bar, that some people are unfamiliar with the term "hate sex." This is unfortunate because the second I start describing what it is, people can almost immediately identify with it. So I decided to write a short definition of the term, the factors that lead up to it, and the catalyst to make it happen.
Hate sex is a situation in which you have sex with someone who you absolutely despise as a person, but find extremely attractive, physically. This happens in two main situations. The first one is more of a mental fantasy that rarely comes to fruition. Say you're at work, or school, or a volunteer group, and there is an extremely attractive person working with you that you secretly wish you could have five minutes alone with. You start talking, though, and that person, who you almost idolized two seconds ago, becomes the physical embodiment of hell on earth. They're arrogant, or they're stupid, or they're mean, etc. they become enemy number one and you want to kill them in their sleep. This work situation continues, despite begging your superior for another assignment, and the tension in your brain grows. Unfortunately, this hatred of them doesn't necessarily erase the physical sexiness. You are now left with extremely polarized opinions of this person that gnaws away at your psyche until something hits you. Either you're masturbating, or you're having sex with your significant other, and that person's image pops into your mind, and you proceed to have the roughest, most violent, emotional session of your life, ending with an earth-shattering orgasm that is both exhausting and satisfying.
The second situation happens far more often. It is when your ex comes over for some stupid reason, and starts bringing up little insults and snippy remarks. You snip back, and it turns into a horrible fight. You both bring up the most painful parts of the break up and you two are pissed. At the same time, though, adrenaline tends to make people look more attractive than they really are, and out of hormones and frustration, you proceed to bang each other's brains out. It is rough. There is usually pushing, shoving, and pinning. Hair is getting pulled, and names are getting called. Again, there's a lot of anger, but it is so satisfying at that moment.
So now my question to you is; Have you ever had hate sex with someone? Have you ever wanted to? I'm curious about how popular it really is.
