So I kissed a friend of mine a days ago. I haven't seen or talked to her in a long time. She invites me over and we get high and talk, her daughter was giving her a hard time haha. She's cute, no I know how my friend was when she was young haha. She finally got her daughter to sleep. She puts on TheWalkingDead and already I'm like I'll do anything you want. But I tell her about her bad choices in guys, she knows what I'm talking about. The whole 3-4 hours we talked sitting there watching tv....I start sweet talking to her, I tell her she has beautiful eyes, I was attracted to her with glasses, she has a great smile. That I wasn't like other guys, that I would be a father figure to her daughter. The night goes on and she starts talking like "what if". She sits closer to me, grabs my arms and puts it around her. At that point I'm like
am I holding her? Then she wants to kiss...I wanted to for almost over 10 years. I paused and thought about if I should and she tells me I'm on a time limit so I go for it. She liked it and so did I. The only thing is we don't want to ruin our friendship, she did tell me she started to have feelings for me. Then at the same time she also said she was interested in 2 other guys. We talked more and I left her house around 2am. I just don't know what to do.
pogue_mahone:
Ah, dude. If you care for her a lot you should totally go for it. Treat her like a queen and make her forget the other 2 dudes. Life's too short to let good things slip away.
andorra:
If she doesn't know what she wants, then don't allow your heart to be a doormat, she knows how you feel and your perspective on her choices, stay at a distance and see how she behaves and if she comes around, awesome! If not, it's her loss! You seem like a great guy!