So I'm out in San Luis Obispo visiting a friend I haven't seen in about 4 years. It's been interesting so far. I feel really awkward here. About 2 month ago she hit me up and explained her and her boyfriend broke up. I showed empathy for her because that's a tough situation. Within a couple days she tells me that I should come visit her and that we should hook up. Me being a guy who's going through a divorce and now has an attractive girl who wants to sleep with me I immediately say yes and book a flight. During the 2 months we talk a lot until about 3 weeks ago. She drops off completely. Finally she texts me and explains that she met a guy and she really likes him but he moved away so she's just been sad about that. No problem I get it. To me that says the guy isn't in the picture. She even acts like he's not there anymore. So finally I fly in yesterday and we have a good time catching up and getting drinks. We decide to go to bed. I go into her room and we get into bed. I put my arm on her and I end up kissing her. Mind you we've never hooked up or done anything prior to this. We kiss for maybe a minute before she stops me and tells me that the guy she met she still likes and cares about.... Ugh.... I feel defeated, like almost lead on. I absolutely respect her decision to not do anything with me and that's fine I just wish she would have been upfront with me as to not get my hopes up. I'm not mad at her or anything I guess just frustrated with myself for thinking that this would actually happen. Well anyways I'm done bitching. If anyone is in or near San Luis Obispo and wants to hang out let me know. I'm always down for making new friends.
