I've been thinking about drawing a "Who's Fucking Whom in Hipster Boston" diagram recently. I thought it would help people keep track of who their primary partners were, and who else they were sleeping with. The problem is that so many people who think they're up for playing in the water can't swim, and find themselves climbing up on the backs of those who can, trying to save themselves. Instead, they end up drowning everyone.
It's obvious that some of us get it, and some of us can handle it. But if you're one of the folks who likes to make up stories to try and ruin other people's relationships so you can have a little more security, or maybe improve your chances of fucking someone in particular, you should pretty much just go fuck yourself instead. And if you're someone who believes all the bullshit, you should take a good look at your sources and wonder what it is they're saying about you when you're not there, and what it is they really want.
The people I'm involved with are honest. They communicate. They're friends with each other, and friends with each other's friends. Everyone owns up to what it is they want, and everyone gives a shit enough about each other to make room for it and support it. No one is "mine." No one is anyone else's private property. But everyone treats each other with respect.
If you're not capable of playing the game that way, then you should go back and learn the self control you should have acquired as a child instead of grabbing at everything you see, and treating it like a competition with everyone else to get it.
It's obvious that some of us get it, and some of us can handle it. But if you're one of the folks who likes to make up stories to try and ruin other people's relationships so you can have a little more security, or maybe improve your chances of fucking someone in particular, you should pretty much just go fuck yourself instead. And if you're someone who believes all the bullshit, you should take a good look at your sources and wonder what it is they're saying about you when you're not there, and what it is they really want.
The people I'm involved with are honest. They communicate. They're friends with each other, and friends with each other's friends. Everyone owns up to what it is they want, and everyone gives a shit enough about each other to make room for it and support it. No one is "mine." No one is anyone else's private property. But everyone treats each other with respect.
If you're not capable of playing the game that way, then you should go back and learn the self control you should have acquired as a child instead of grabbing at everything you see, and treating it like a competition with everyone else to get it.
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kwizzle:
Not. A job. I want. Unless there's a polygraph involved, and a very precise dictionary of terms.
owenewowen:
I know man...I agonized over it, but all the stuff I'm selling is stuff I really don't care about any of the stuff that's up. Don't worry- I've still got plenty!