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1. At this point if the two of you want to save the relationship you need a third party. Preferably a couples/marriage counselor, but just a well grounded individual with good common sense would help. They can keep it from turning into a shouting match and make both of you think about what each of you are saying.

2. If their "reason" is something you believe 100% then they are not friends, just acquaintances. You need to fix things so you can rely on each other. Hey, you're a bright girl. Take a mechanic's course and learn to do it yourself.

3. There are a lot of reasons men do this but in the long run it comes down to: They aren't satisfied with what they've and never will be. Harsh but true. Move on. (I'm hoping you're not talking about Sean.)

this is what you said.

1. that was not about me and sean. just about us procrastinating and crap. we get stuff done and shit, it just takes us a while. it wasnt about our relationship.
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3. im not talking about sean. i just live in a house with 4 guys. i get tired of them treating girls the way they do, and not appreciating how much their girlfriends do for them.

no no it was only because I was good!