so yes, lost chances will always remain in the back of everyone's mind, but i think that's a good thing.. it is either going to keep you from losing a similar chance in the future, or help remind you how good you were w/out it. i suppose it's not always healthy to dwell in the past, but the past is where you learn your life from, and learn who you were and who you have become, so why not dwell in the past, why not always remember who you used to be..