dave82

Me too. Years and years of being
browbeaten & belittled seems to
have that effect on one.
Go figure.
I try to think about this when I am
in the mindset of can't:
If you think you can't do something, it means
you probably won't.

I am learning now that the only person
in controll of me and my feelings is me.
No matter how fucked up I was in the past
or those around me does not have to rule
me anymore.

You can fix things in your life...maybe
just not in the way you entirely wish
it could be.

For me, the things that I say I can't
to are things that I am too lazy to
try. Or scared to try.

Good luck with what's going on in
your life and take care of yourself.
Contact me if you want to talk.
~June