datsun

Why do I date such lame guys? Last night I went out with a girlfriend to dinner, and afterwards wound up in the town my ex lives in. We've hung out a few times recently, and he's a friend, but I'm pretty sure we could never be partners again. (We dated a decade ago). However, he's been all over me lately trying to get me to see him more, and last night my resolve was weakening. He'd spent the entire time hanging on me, telling me how beautiful I am and how he's still in love with me. I'd been drinking non-alcoholic drinks all evening so I could drive us home eventually, and at last call he informs me that he's going home with another woman! But that isn't even the worst of it- she drove him home but opted not to stay, so he called me obsessively trying to get me to come over! (I was certainly not going to be the second-string booty call with Drunky McDrunkerson over there). I just don't know when I became a doormat. It didn't used to be this way. I don't know when things changed or how to change them back, but I don't want to be treated like this. More importantly, I want to stop giving out whatever vibe I give that tells men it's okay to do that crap.